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War Crimes against Women: A Private Hell
Gender justice is an unfamiliar term to most people. Many assume it is merely a feminine (and therefore diminutive) form of justice, created by adding an awkward adjective to an abstract ideal.
But thanks to years of documenting gender-based crimes, pressure from women's movements, testimony from victims and legal arguments, there is now a body of jurisprudence and a history of movements that define gender justice and promote it internationally. At an historic conference in April, organized by the Women's Initiative for Gender Justice (WIGJ) and the Nobel Women's Initiative, fifty women gathered in a Mexican beach town to evaluate the progress of gender justice and set forth a three-year work agenda.
I had the good fortune and tremendous responsibility of being among the luchadoras -women who struggle-charged with beginning this task. Participants made a collective promise to work closely with organizations back home and with the International Criminal Court and other bodies to end gender-based crimes in armed conflict and attain justice.
No small task. In a place as orienting as the edge of the Pacific Ocean, I often found myself disoriented by the enormity of it. I was part of a world linked by common values, but fragmented by hundreds of seemingly senseless wars-each with a political complexity and historical intransigence that defied solutions. The room filled with the stories of how women from diverse cultures, rich in resistance but plagued by discrimination and traditions of gender violence, seek peace and justice in equally diverse ways.
Some are immersed in internationally recognized conflict situations, others in peace processes, and others in rebuilding post-conflict societies. The law provides some framework, albeit insufficient, for their demands for punishment and reparations for gender-based crimes. They are learning to use those legal tools.
But many of us from Latin America came from countries where conflict situations are not internationally recognized; peace in Honduras and Colombia has been restored, we are told, even as murder, displacement and crimes against women continue on a daily basis. Mexico's growing violence against women in the context of the drug war and impunity is the dirt that is routinely swept under the political rug. We grappled with questions of where we fit into the international legal system, how we could build movements to stop gender-based crimes in low-level local conflicts, how a stronger gender perspective could help fend off the growing militarism that marks our lives.
Some women spoke the language of the courtroom and explained the international instruments that have been developed to document and punish gender-based war crimes. Other women talked of grassroots organizing tactics and how to build peace movements that take women's demands and realities into account. Their experiences combined provided a broad and complex range of strategies. They reflected what Brigid Inder of WIGJ called "the tension between the punitive formal justice model and the more comprehensive and complex agenda for what we call transformative justice, where the finding of guilt or innocence is accompanied by efforts to transform both communal and gender relations."
Common themes soon emerged. Testimonies from brave women revealed that within the hell of war lies a private hell. The hell of sexual violence-an inner circle shielded from scrutiny by the socially imposed shame of its victims and the willful ignorance of legal and political systems.
Our Latin American perspective required us to interpret from a framework of recognized conflict with an applicable body of international law, to a continent of emerging threats including the drug war and local battles over natural resources. The thread that united our experiences was the role of women as the leaders of social justice movements and the victims of conflict.
The sands beneath our feet shifted during the conference. Not when the tide rolled over during early morning walks on the beach-although those moments were also an important part of forging a common commitment-but when we heard survivors´ stories and statistics like these, from Joan Chittister:
* At the turn of the 20th century, 5% of war casualties were civilians
* In World War I, 15% were civilians
* In World War II, the figure leapt to a 65% civilian death toll, as whole cities were bombed
* By the mid-nineties, 75% of war deaths were civilians
* Today, 90% of the human war toll are civilians-the majority women and children
Forget the complaints of "collateral damage". As military leaders brag that modern technology has produced the most accurate weapons in history, during war strikes in places like Iraq or Afghanistan, women and children die.
They are not the collateral damage-they are the targets.
When finally, through the efforts of women like those at the Dialogue, international agencies produce some statistics on rape and other forms of sexual violence in conflict situations, the figures are so staggering, the stories so shockingly brutal, that all attempts to explain away the phenomenon as the acts of a few rogue soldiers or part of the pillage of war fall away. Rape is a calculated weapon of war. It decimates communities, destroys families, spreads disease and leaves deep physical and psychological scars. That is the purpose.
No geographic region has a corner on barbarity when it comes to gender-based crimes. For example, women reported sex crimes and violence by paramilitary and military forces against displaced populations in Burma, Colombia and Sudan.
Many speakers noted that the use of women's bodies as both the spoils and the battlefields of war appears to be on the rise. In some cases, women organizers for peace and justice have made progress, such as the fight against land mines and for peace in Northern Ireland, but new and terrible challenges have emerged in unexpected points of the planet, like Honduras. The opportunity to compare notes, to learn what works, what doesn't work, who are allies and who are enemies gave renewed commitment and shared knowledge to women peace organizers who girthed themselves to return home to local battles.
Gender Justice is now an international issue
The International Criminal Court as a Tool of Gender Justice
The timing of the Dialogue responded to an immediate challenge: in early June the Assembly of State Parties will hold a 10-year Review Conference of the International Criminal Court. In addition, the year marks the fifteenth anniversary of the Beijing World Conference on Women, the tenth anniversary of the UN Security Council resolution 1325 on Women, Peace and Security, and the dawn of a new "gender architecture" within the UN to promote women's rights. As the organizers explained, "This is an opportune moment to reflect on the progress and work of the ICC, the possibilities embodied in the Rome Statute for the accountability of conflict-related crimes, and the responsibilities of the United Nations for the deterrence and resolution of armed conflicts, women's global citizenship and gender-inclusive international justice."
The ICC is currently hearing cases from four armed conflicts-Uganda, Democratic Republic of the Congo, the Central African Republic and Sudan-and all include charges of gender-based crimes. It has provided a forum to seek justice and to create public awareness of these crimes and has launched innovative projects, including the ICC Trust Fund for Victims. For women involved in giving testimonies-women and girls who live with the scars of war-time rapes and mutilations-the work of the court may be far away but the concept of justice that it seeks to provide is at the core of their daily lives.
The ICC takes a case when national systems of justice will not or do not function. It can be a blow against impunity. It is easy to think of impunity as a sin of omission. The hand not raised in protest appears genteel alongside the hand stained with the blood of the victim. And yet we learned from the testimonies of women on the frontlines of the battle for gender justice that impunity not only perpetrates crimes against women, it teaches generation after generation how to continue the practice.
Dialogue members noted that the international system offers both opportunities and limitations. Joanne Sandler of UNIFEM warned that Resolutions are not always proof of resolve. Since the Security Council issued Resolution 1325, there have been 24 formal peace processes. Women have been only 10% of the negotiators and 2% of the signatories. Worse yet, she said, there doesn't seem to be progress. More formal mechanisms are needed to assure compliance with gender policies. Without permanent pressure from women organizers and experts, legal advances could remain a dead letter.
From the Courts to the Streets and Back Again
Gender-based crimes require responses in three areas: Prevention, protection and reparation. Experts working in the international legal system noted that prevention, the most important of all, is given fewer resources because it does not have measurable benchmarks. How do you measure the number of lives not nearly destroyed by horrors we can scarcely imagine? Participants agreed that although bureaucrats have yet to come up with a formula, prevention should be our ultimate goal.
To prevent sex crimes requires nothing short of a revolution in cultural, political and social norms. This group has demonstrated its willingness to step up to the task. The Nobel Women's Initiative was founded by six women Nobel Prize winners who refused to rest on their laurels. Then there is Yanar Mohammed of Iraq, who went out into a Baghdad street to speak on International Woman's Day in a bullet-proof vest, following numerous death threats, and then went on to denounce the rape of women in detention centers and sex trafficking, and create a vibrant cultural movement for youth.
Or Gilda Rivera, who was kidnapped and beaten during Honduras´ dirty wars of the eighties, then saw the nightmare return when a military coup d'état took over her country in June of 2009. It would be enough to drive anyone into exile or retreat. It drove Gilda into the streets of Tegucigalpa. Every morning she marched against the coup and every afternoon organized with Feminists in Resistance to protect women and document the crimes against them.
Too often the cry is not heard. Deputy Prosecutor Fatou Bensouda, in a taped message, called rape "the silent crime against communities." Then she immediately questioned the terminology, asking "Is rape really silent?" Women scream, yet far too often no one hears. Just sharing stories was a sort of catharsis for women who see far too much suffering in their work and lives. The Dialogue provided a forum to cry out to a gathering that will not only hear, but act.
What to do faced with such a daunting challenge?
The question was on the table, and since this was an action-oriented gathering there was no escaping it. The International Gender Justice Dialogue sketched out ideas for the coming years in three areas: peace talks and implementation, justice and jurisprudence and communications. Dialogue members came up with lists of tactics, hints, strategies and challenges for the coming years, from Nobel Laureate Jody Williams´ creative messaging in the successful campaign to ban land mines, to lawyers´ advice on using the court.
But the key message was just one: Don't give up. Ever.
As I write this, we have just received word that human rights defender Bety Cariño was murdered by paramilitary forces in the Mexican state of Oaxaca. She was part of a humanitarian aid caravan and is the third woman murdered in the conflict in this region recently. Bety wasn't necessarily singled out as a woman, but it's no coincidence that she was one. The same concerns and qualities that make it imperative for women to be among the peace negotiators and the leaders in social reconstruction and justice proceedings are the qualities that led Bety to become a defender of grassroots movements and to be carrying aid to an autonomous indigenous community when she was shot to death.
Bety´s assassination, the recruitment of girl soldiers in the DRC, rape in Sudan all are issues of gender justice. Jody William points out that that doesn't mean they are "women's issues."
Gender justice is not a subcategory of social justice; it's an essential component.
This article was originally published by Open Democracy.



25 Comments so far
Show AllHester Eisenstein's Feminism Seduced addresses this linkage of imperialism with what she calls "state feminism." I don't agree with Eisenstein entirely, but "war crimes against women" does seem like a too convenient wedge for "humanitarian" interventionists to provide cover for imperialist adventures.
Sioux Rose
ARDENT: I presume you are a male? Every time this topic comes up and it makes it very clear that WOMEN are the victims here... read the statistics again! Some idiot has to mention, "Gee, in this violent world 'They' kill men, too." I am so tired of this deflection! You took a subject that deserves serious attention, and turned it into a political jijitsu involving those few centrist women who do not own a full understanding of the situation in Afghanistan. Women like Laura Bush who gave her darling hubby cover by suggesting all those brave boys were fighting over there to liberate the ladies. THAT is not the subject here; and I vehemently take issue with your conflating one with the other. The rape of women is a long-time war CRIME, that women are on the receiving end is indisputable. In a short article many things get left out, like the amount of violence directed at women in this "land of the free." In fact, it also failed to mention the fact that young American females stupid or poor enough to be seduced by the likes of Blackwater have reported violent rapes. The worst was the one that's achieved national attention and not an iota of justice. Our leaders, mostly males, decided to grant more power to the cold words of a paper contract in the face of barbaric acts that no sane or civilized nation should EVER countenance. They nod in consensus on the unspeakable, and go on about their days leaving lives tattered, justice mocked.
Why is it EVERY time the subject of violence directed at women comes up, a few in this forum have to try to "level the playing field" by pointing to violence directed at men? It is the male side "of the force," patriarchal religions and their institutions which now, under everything but stated allegiance to the war-god Mars (certainly there is a preponderance of evidence that speaks exactly TO this fealty) cultivate violence. Militarism is mostly a MALE thing. Our society is entirely directed at what males value, and the women who demonstrate "success" 9 times out of 10 must and do adapt to that model. I criticize the asymmetric model foremost. I realize it victimizes both. However, when women point out their lack of numbers in any representative body, and do what they can to seek redress for the incredible levels of violence they experience around the world, mentioning that men suffer, too is a diversionary tactic. It tries to take the air out of this balloon. And why is that? What kind of mind, attitude, or heart needs to do that? What the hell are you defending here? You show compassion for the illegal immigrants, where is your compassion for women? And IF you are a woman, my goddess, what the hell happened to you?
I like what you have to say about Arizona and the anti-immigrant pseudo law, but this? It makes you seem like more than a closet sexist. Misogynism is ALL over your post.
Everything and every living being IS connected, so whatever is done to the least of these, and let's face it--bullies want power and so they direct their force at those who generally cannot fight back effectively. Whether these targets are smaller, poor, lacking political clout, or members of a nation deemed "enemy," the same sick dynamic is at work. Whether conscious of it, or otherwise, YOU are making apologies for the disease, rather than looking at what's needed for its cure!
P.S. I had this EXACT same conversation with a poster who went by "Martian Bachelor." And I can imagine that clones of this same retrograde thought process will show up and try to take MY inventory... diluting the subject itself to why it it is important to me. The libertarian/atomistic Karl Rove inverted attack mechanism, designed to assassinate the character of anyone who raises issues unpopular to the sexist, racist, class-war, anti-nature, earthbound control group is quite alive on CD.
ARTEMIS? KAY JOHNSON? READY TO TRANSFORM? DONNALOU? Other women of intelligence and conscience, help me out on this one.
Sioux Rose;A great and true retort,thank you and I wrote this for mothers or for those who chose not to be but it can apply to any lady and nobody has to believe the Adam and Eve thing but and this is a big but it has been ground into the human condition since it was first put forward.Tony
MOTHERS DAY 2010
Is a mother only defined as the one who carries the new addition to term and then births a marvelous collection of bones and sinew, hopefully with a heart that beats for more than his/her own life, and all the other parts that go into a functioning body? The world as it is would tell us that this is not so and that there are many, who from choice or circumstance, do not or cannot realize this awesome choice; for it is a choice.
Motherhood is of the world and Mothers Day should not be confined to only those who can set such a day apart for the celebrating of the one that guides the evolving Soul from the first breath to where it may be a self sustaining life on its own. There are exceptions to the ideal of this guide of life as there are where free will is and some may not wish for what is a large responsibility.
What of this world that would and does treat a mother as a shackle or even as second class Soul and for what reasons? Some may be from religion, a religion usually imposed by a male, to control; no matter the lofty words from religions of all the differing faiths there is, spoken or unspoken, a need for this control of the perceived and I mean perceived weakness of the one gender. Through out the world there are the “faiths” that through physical limitations and abuses exert control that is always, always a contributing factor in the ongoing battle between peace and war.
How so you may ask? It has been maintained in books of faith, stories and legends that he was tempted by her and they got kicked out of paradise for the fact that he let her talk him into something he knew was wrong and how far is it to want to control everyone and everything as a way of life? What is wrong with this picture that has carried on to this present age? Think of all the persecutions, slights, large and small that mothers or mothers to be have been subjected to and do you know why? It is my contention that many of the male gender have a guilty conscience about this first guy and that he was such a coward to not just say “no thank you” and has been trying to sooth his aching conscience ever since. A small thing; do you walk with a lady next to you or do you walk ahead or not at all?
My mother was a mom to any and all and she taught well and it is my good fortune to have known and been related to many mothers who can be called “MOM”
Happy Mothers Day!
Sandy and Tony 5/8/2010
Sioux Rose
TONY: You get it. One of my favorite quotes of all time is "Only the enlightened warrior recognizes the benefits of peace." I think it fits you! Your heart may have been broken into 100 pieces, but when it burst, it let the light in. You understand the experience of the soul, have that sentience the more earth-bound and science-only devotees miss. It's a form of cognition that cannot be conveyed. Like a gift, it is given and when the soul opens like a rose, that experience is so powerful that it does not require the validation of others. Of course having experienced the fragrance, the love inside of us compels us to wish that understanding would also open others. That impulse I find strongly developed in you, and I resonate with it.
This forum is quite intriguing. Many of us bring unique perspectives to it, and when we can appreciate each other's voices, we can all learn something. That does not mean that the educated opinion in ANY area is equivalent to one that's formed on the basis of mere hearsay. Some in this forum are well-read, some have a profound recollection of history, others are strong in mechanical arts and science, and then there are the political theologians, chessplayers of a sort. Each of these fields and perspectives has its value. I'm glad some appreciate the esoteric basis behind what I share. At times I encounter those few who have the reflex of biting dogs... they snarl at what threatens them.
As for the Adam and Eve thing, I always thought it was amusing that she offered the apple but is blamed for HIM TAKING it. It's the projection of blame through temptation. What of his free will here? Of course if sex was not cast into taboo, imagine the mutual joy lovers would have continued to experience in this Garden-planet? Instead, that first wound placed between the genders has reverberated down the ages as sin and fear... perfect ingredients to promote war ad infinitim. AND that is one palpable explanation for the tragic state of Eden today.
Sioux Rose;thank you for the kind words and may the peace we yearn be soonest rather than later.Tony
Sioux Rose
JENNIFER: I think you are a smart cookie and I have told you that. LIFE experience will round you out more... that will take what's purely academic or intellectual and make it real, powerful, and visceral. Your words come from your head. I would like to experience the JB who speaks from her HEART.
Anyone in this forum who tries to equate the violence against women with an equivalent aimed at men is being incredibly disingenous or short-sighted. I am well-aware of rape in MALE prisons and I think it's horrific. TOM LARSEN made the excellent point that perhaps it's better to cast our references through the framing of dominator society models versus the more egalitarian, harmony-seeking sort (which are few in number).
Too many judge reality by the limitations of their personal experiences, or judge the totality of human nature by either the examples in their field of reference, or those related through history's account. Both are not only flawed, they represent the world as told through the viewpoint of the dominator white anglo male (usually elite) society members. These people have controlled not only the discussion, they used the church-state to force conformity in the cruelest of ways. This point reminds me of one raised in this forum with respect to socialism... some say it doesn't work, but the real issue is that it's not much been attempted! Power structures fight against alternatives. We see this in the way big oil has bought patents to prevent other alternative energy technologies from reaching the mass market.
As a natural maverick, one born ahead of her time, it's my JOB description to challenge the claims to normalcy that have taken this precious world to the cusp of the abyss. I do not believe there is a singular norm for behavior... this is where I'd relate the power of the 12 disciples, that 12 basic human archetypes people this world, and each has its power (or gift) and weakness, or arena for karmic lesson learning. No singular one can make a claim either for God or for what is right for human beings... it is the full circle that would make for a model of human relationships that can transcend the old ism divisions. And that's why I teach this!
Jennifer, as you know I spend plenty of time in this forum, but I do not have infinite time to spend educating people who have never read a book on the topic of feminism in their lives. Their thought process is like a pinball game where ideas bounce from one prejudice to another. It would take YEARS to lift the consciousness of those sorts. My search for knowledge and understanding has taken me to many nations, and it's extremely useful to leave one's place of origin and live with persons who were not indoctrinated to view the world in the way that one has been conditioned. Enlightenment can and does happen... but it means being willing to pour the wine of new thought into the old wine skins. Jesus was a master. Buddha was a master. There were others. They understood this world and pierced its illusions while leaving behind inordinately wise and useful teachings. What's resulted is that the followers kill each other in the name of their chosen messiahs/teachers or avatars.
I appreciate the respect you brought to this discussion. It's a shame that weak men who can't begin to appreciate the wider perspectives I generously add to this forum think that by tarnishisg the witness (me) with false characterizations they can shut the discussions down. Misandrist? Hilarious. As if the search for equality meant that my indictments towards an injust society equates with a dislike for men. That is the type of narrow thought process one would find in a bigoted ignoramus. Unfortunately, I have loved a few too well.
ARDENT: You cling too strongly to beliefs that ARE sexist. If you read what I wrote in this thread (and the one from Katha Pollitt) PERHAPS you could jerk the closed door of your mind open enough to let a little therapeutic light in. If not, keep clinging to your righteous views. A few examples of women in power today does not explain away centuries of sexism; and I explained more than once, that the types who gain power reflect "the establishment" and its protocols/views. Power has been abused where possible by both genders, but the issue is how a society allots power, and sexism is one of its chief pillars.
Jeepers! I thought nest building was a non gender based oily sort of addiction.
Souix Rose: How does the primacy of nurture and ego development play in all of this?
Sioux Rose
EPIE: Your question probably requires volumes to answer. There is a very nuanced aspect of astrology based on the 360 degrees of the Zodiac. These carry VERY specific inclinations, behavioral traits and so on. Were I to read aloud in a court of law, the degrees specific to a chart like that of Charles Manson, the issue of guilt would perhaps be altered. All the violence read out his bio before it was ever (to be) enacted. I shared an apartment in Puerto Rico with a man who was a costume designer, and his Venus (which represents creative inclinations and related sensibilities) was actually on the Zodiac's singular degree of COSTUMING. I have 4 (of 10) degrees that speak of being a sybil or oracle. A lawyer I used to date had 5 degrees of argument and polemic. In other words, this hidden information reflects on the qualities we reincarnate with. The degrees in my view are a Mandala of creation and hold the potentials for human behavior the way specific colors imbue our world with distinction. The ego develops in accord with its own blueprint, and while there are SOME generic influences and indications, each of us is plotted to our own course and it's based on a trajectory that was set into motion way before this particular lifetime. Nurture always helps.
My best friend raised the child from her husband's union with a prior wife and when we observed this child's degrees they were absolutely awful. They were all about addiction and drugs. Because she lavished him with love and acted as a true counselor, this young man (now a father) still parties hard, has a tendency to use recreational drugs, but I believe her LOVE offset the more self-destructive potentials indicated by and through his personal "mandala." Love is always a mitigating factor. I believe this woman was a nun in a former lifetime and raised many orphan children. She still has MANY young people come to her as she is such a natural source of unconditional love. When I tell her about difficult astrological patterns, she always answers that "God can over-ride it."
Carlos Casteneda spoke of good deeds as being "payments to the spirit of mankind," an account he further related, was always too low. I believe that we should always be generous, give what we can as it helps the world (or should), while building our legacy... perhaps in the form of creating a buffer when tough events are fated to head our way.
Hope that brief explanation helped.
My Grandfather on my Mother’s side retired in his mid thirties to become a non-ordained hell fire preacher who also wrote dark witless poems that he later self-published.
I inherited his pendulum clock that he used to wind every day with the duty now in my roster. I sometimes ponder how this may feed my verbal rants.
I appreciate your comments on the healing power of nurture. If only society could value the ‘love economy’ more.
Glendon Wayne
* At the turn of the 20th century, 5% of war casualties were civilians
* In World War I, 15% were civilians
* In World War II, the figure leapt to a 65% civilian death toll, as whole cities were bombed
* By the mid-nineties, 75% of war deaths were civilians
* Today, 90% of the human war toll are civilians-the majority women and children
This has to be emphasized over and over and over again , as those that support the War machine continue to claim that the Armies are sent to all regions of the Globe to defend the civilians.
The claim that technology has made weapons so accurate that Civilians are spared that violence is an absolute and utter crock.
When nations go to war they war on CIVILIANS. Just as when they build their landmines and cluster bombs they use them to kill civilians.
When 5 percent of people killed in war are civilians one might call it collateral damage. When 90 percent killed are civilians it is POLICY.
This is a vivid statistic. Injuring civilians is a way to tie down the whole society, personnel and resources, caring for the maimed and wounded. Women will have the biggest share in these responsibilities. Killing civilians is to put the surviving family into grief and mourning. You may have seen how the death of a child affects many people for the rest of their lives. Ways of earning a living are disrupted. Women are almost always the ones who will take on the task of supporting the children, no matter what.
There is nothing heroic about modern war. It is one-sided. 95% of the time, it is an engagement between our heavily armed troops from the US, and people living in their homes in their own country of birth. Our troops are frequently unsure of the mission, unable to understand who is who and what is what. Nobody will say, but the mission is based on using technology to demoralize a whole people. Why? It is on behalf of the war profiteers, to sell weaponry, to overpay mercenaries and to steal resources. It is to absorb the unemployed and to keep us busy here worrying about the Ay-rabs while the bankers and corporations merrily steal our money and pollute our environment.
There is another way.
Joe
Gender justice is a complicated issue than what most people would like to think. I would like to acknowledge that yes, men and women are the victims of militarism but the reason why militarism affects women the most is that in most patriarchal oriented societies especially the ones that are being attacked such as Afghanistan and Iraq, women are placed enormous burdens of responsibility and if anything goes wrong, the blame and punishment almost always falls on them. No nation can change other patriarchal nations through a war. The people living in those nations can only decide for themselves how to answer it. However, one thing that many are probably doing is looking at the west especially the US and wondering why women there are divided on gender justice. I have been through odd moments with not only men but even some women rather unexpectedly throughout my life. Yes, there are men who have shown their jealousy of my being a bold woman by trying to insult me with remarks such as "you must have been born a man and turned woman" and they say this to a lot of women because they fear our abilities to think and strike a peaceful and balancing chord. Unfortunately, I also cannot understand how some women can have the nerve to tell me that I'm not feminine enough or that I don't deserve to be part of any sister's club just because I argue that women should fight for respect and not for revenge. I have also met a few women throughout my life who would absurdly believe that men should be in control of everything. This is where I fear the division among women becomes clear and any male out there who does not like women for having their unique abilities to be boldly creative will go all out to exploit the division and thereby stifle gender justice.
To make my position clear, I believe that men should treat women with the same respect women have been treating men with all along. I neither believe in conceding nor in seeking revenge of any kind because that is what males who don't believe in giving females any respect will use as an excuse to incite fear into more men against women.
"No nation can change other patriarchal nations through a war. " So true, JB.
For the home front, the whole post is great. Fighting for gender equality is especially complex, since the "enemies" often share children, manage the same home and sleep in the same bed. Most people do not think too much, so I am happy you do.
Joe
Thank you Joe and I wish people would think this through but it might take enough hard-learned experiences from enough of us to make such thinking more mainstream. Maybe then, even Code Pink will get its endorsements correct come election time every time instead of clinging by party.
P.S.: Sioux Rose, thanks for the reply. I have a lot to think about what you said before I can reply. I don't want to give a hasty response especially when thinking from my head and heart have always been at odds and I want to settle that out before making full judgments on deep issues such as this one.
Pray For Your DOW Mother empirePie May 16th, 2010
Pray for a double dip slide. High Five it for a high frequency dive
The lack of scarcity has more to hide like the black tide oops, the double Gulfs gaping gaps from stolen oil to the to lap dances for lapsed regs so mercenary Xs can buoy up and man the death boy clowns with chirpy Apache rounds for patriot burka wraps, to the pundits pultaceous bile the guile to clothe ruin in beauty words in BP, Brackish Plunder pavement of desire words;
while money is for nothing jumps on gold with grills of rappers also sold flashing flesh for bounty, butt shaking for gain yet more honest than our shadow masters who seize our cash for others pain.
so.......
Pray for a double dip slide.
Pray for Bees lookin for their hive
Pray for Madeline all brightly’s dive
High Five it for a high frequency dive
It seems like the mothers of all DOW destruction may be a seemly Nestle- ly solution.
"hundreds of seemingly senseless wars-each with a political complexity and historical intransigence that defied solutions." This is simply nonsense as most of these wars are attempts by the powerful to maintain and increase their power. If it looks complex to the author of this article, then that means the elites have done a snow job on the author.
On the other issue, between ardent 1 and Siouxrose, here's my take on that. I think ardent 1 mistakes anecdotal evidence for universal truths. Anecdotal evidence is powerful and usually persuasive for the one/s experiencing it. But I think the issue can be clarified if one steps back and looks at the reasons that would foster and perpetuate matriarchy and patriarchy.
Two important realizations in the history of humans had to have occured before the rise of patriarchy. The first would be the awareness of mortality, the second, awareness that males played a role in the creation of new life. (Perhaps one can think of this realization as eating the fruit of the tree of knowledge.) Prior to the rise of patriarchy, women were thought to be the sole creators of new life and were worshiped as such.
In patriarchy, once men figured out that they were a necessary component of creating the next generation and that they could substitute the success of their child as a means to immortality, the only way a man could assure himself absolutely that he was the father, was by absolutely controlling the mother. By making her unavailable to others for sexual favors, and requiring her availability to him alone. This would have become an imperative in order to secure that the child the man was raising was actually his own ticket to immortality and not that of a usurper.
Of course, this lead to great insecurity for men and virtual chattel slavery for women. This type of control and subjugation was subsequently codified in patriarchal religions. But notice too that increased opportunities for men to increase their opportunities at immortality, i.e., to impregnate as many women as possible, could also become a driving force for at least some men, thereby pitting them into competition for the women and in conflict with each other. This helps drive any innate tendencies toward violence that might be in both sexes. This reason, and increased testosterone, makes it more potent in men than in women.
In matriarchy, there is no need to use control in order to establish lineage. Her immortality is best accomplished by assuring the safety, and well-being of her child. Her immortality is not diminished by the immortality of others. Her interests in safety and well-being can easily extend to the entire community.
If you can accept my interpretation of history, then it would seem to follow that men are the ones more involved in starting and perpetuating violent conflict.
Sioux Rose
4thefuture: Great post. Thank you for taking the time to spell it all out. I have certainly made similar efforts on numerous occasions, but either "the usual suspects" miss the comments, or are incapable of altering their positions, so retort with the same tired lines. I'm grateful someone else cares enough to answer them, and help expand their perspectives.
Sioux Rose
ARDENT: You are the arrogant one. You want to insist on the validity of a model that has raped women and continues to do so, and then you have the NERVE to "stick up" for men. METAL gets it, but he has a comprehensive mind, not one that can only see either or limited constructs. You don't want to broaden your mind, you want to be right at others' expense. Your concept of justice is one that licks the boots of the status quo. You can keep it. The world is changing, with you or without you.
PS: I am a teacher because I went through courses to BE certified as a teacher. And the fact that I have published MANY books and columns, and people pay for my time as a counseler DOES affirm my status as a teacher. For a nurse, you sure have a lot of "free" time.
And by the way, GW NORTH and TOM LARSEN are two others who really do get it, and guess what... they are males!