Cognitive Dissonance 101. Hours after her sick bully of a husband bullied a pregnant Gold Star widow, Melania traveled to Michigan with Betsy DeVos - currently bullying children with disabilities - to speak out against bullying. In an excruciatingly robotic appearance, the "FLOTUS" urged kids be taught "the values of empathy and communication (at) the core of kindness, mindfulness, integrity, and leadership." It did not go well.