Diplomatic Suckerhood: Why Israel Is Fighting Toward its Own Demise

Israeli Jews are deeply worried about their nation's image around
the world, and with good reason. Military occupation is never a pretty
sight, especially when the occupiers have been there for 42 years,
steadily taking over the occupied people's lands as the whole world
watches on television and the internet. It's not surprising that Israel
gets so little sympathy when it complains about its image problem--which
only makes many Israelis worry more about their public image.

But
if Israeli Jews want to escape that vicious cycle and improve their
image, no amount of money spent on clever PR campaigns will help until
they do something about a basic root of the problem: their own cultural
self-image. Not all Israeli Jews have the same self-image, of course.
But there is a complex one embedded in their national culture; a set of
basic assumptions that shape their political discourse and their
government's policy decisions.

The first assumption is obvious
whenever Israelis hear that others don't see them in a positive light.
Their culture gives them a ready-made response, one that goes back to
the very roots of Zionism: The world criticizes us, picks on us,
dislikes us, victimizes us simply because we are Jews.

Certainly
not all Israelis Jews respond this way. Some assess the criticisms
objectively and see whether there is any truth in them; though they are
fighting an uphill battle against the dominant tendency of their
society and its history. Since so many Israelis have learned to see
themselves as victims, they take every criticism as further proof that
they are unfairly singled out for the world's harsh judgment.

So
in order to even approach a solution to the crisis in Israel/Palestine,
it's necessary to ask: Where did this self-image come from? The whole
Zionist project to create a Jewish state began not merely because Jews
felt victimized, but because so many felt powerless to do anything
about it as long as they lived among the goyim (gentiles). What's more, many early Zionists were ashamed
of their weakness, seeing it as a sign that Jews were "abnormal." They
expected to escape all those feelings once they had their own
independent nation, with its own armed forces.

It doesn't seem to
have worked out that way. They have the power, to be sure (by various
accounts, the fourth, fifth, or sixth most effective military in the
world) which they frequently put on display. But all that expenditure
of effort and money--much of it from American tax dollars, but a
considerable amount from Israelis' taxes--has apparently not purchased
feelings of powerfulness, confidence, and pride.

On the
contrary, Israeli political life seems dominated by anxiety. So, for
example, the fear of an Iranian nuclear bomb (even just one, against
Israel's two hundred or more) makes headlines in Israel nearly every
day, like this one from the Jerusalem Post:
"Iran Could Build Bomb Within a Year"; even though, as the article
clearly states, the Israeli government "currently believes that
worst-case scenario is not likely to materialize."

Israel's Defense Minister Ehud Barak betrayed the same sense of anxiety about weakness when he complained to the New York Times
that with the Obama administration "focusing solely on settlement
building and not on what the Arab countries should also be doing for
peace, Israel felt that it was being driven to its knees and delivered
to the other side."

That's a bizarre exaggeration. In fact, the
administration is also focusing on what the Arab countries should be
doing: moving toward normalized ties with Israel. And even were those
demands not being made, the idea that a nation with far more military
power than any of its neighbors is being "driven to its knees," simply
because people want them to stop expanding settlements (which are
illegal in the first place) seems out of touch with reality.

And,
to be precise, it's not just "people" who want them to stop expanding
settlements. It's the most powerful person in the world, the President
of the United States. When POTUS says he wants something from Israel
and makes it clear, in private, that he really means it, the Israeli
government jumps--no matter who is heading it, no matter how hard they
try to hide the fact. That was obvious as far back as the Persian Gulf
War of 1991 when Israel was hit with a number of Iraqi missiles the
Israeli government, which always boasts that it will respond harshly to
any attack, did nothing because Washington put up a big red light.

Washington appears to be flashing the red light once again. According to the Washington Times,
"a senior Israeli official said that Israel has not asked for US aid or
permission [to attack Iran] because the Netanyahu government doesn't
want to risk being told 'no.'" The obvious point is that when the
United States says "no" and means it, Israeli leaders kneel down and
obey; which is why Barak is so worried about Israel being "driven to
its knees."

This is the plight Israel finds itself in: It wants
to use force to prove to the world, and to itself, that Jews have
finally escaped from their age-old powerlessness and the anxiety it
breeds. But Israel can use force only when given permission by the goyim in Washington; which seems to prove that the Jews are still powerless.

If the goyim
say "no," they can be dismissed as Jew-haters (or, if they happen to be
Jewish, as "self-hating Jews," which is just how Israeli prime minister
Benjamin Netanyahu has described
Obama confidantes David Axelrod and Rahm Emanuel. But that merely
reinforces the sense that Jews are surrounded by enemies, victims of a
hatred that seems to have no end, and (once again) powerless.

Netanyahu, doing little to cloak his status in this vicious spiral of insecurity, told
a meeting of EU ambassadors that "Israelis are not willing to be
suckers." Of course no one is suggesting that Israelis are or should be
suckers--except their prime minister. He's standing firm against every
call for an end to settlement expansion just to prove that he and his
people are not suckers. And his defense minister, Ehud Barak, leader of
what was once the opposition party, is standing just as firm to prove
that Israel won't be "driven to its knees."

Perhaps that's why
they continue to attract the hawks calling for an attack on Iran;
perhaps, rather than fear, it's the tempting opportunity to flex their
national muscle that moves them. Yet every muscle flexed to prove their
strength only reinforces their fear that they may not be, perhaps can
never be, strong enough. Whether Israel unleashes or restrains its
military power, either way there is no escape from anxiety.

There is a real bond between the leaders and the people on this point, according to columnist Doron Rosenblum in Israel's leading newspaper, Ha'aretz:
"Netanyahu and Barak would not have achieved such positions of power if
they did not represent at least two outstanding traits of Israeliness:
aggressiveness and paranoia... They reflect two sides of the same
coin--the fear of being considered weak and, the only thing that's
worse, being considered naive." All of which is really just a kind of
psychological weakness.

Rosenblum rightly concludes that if
Israelis shun Obama's peace overtures they are the real suckers. Yet he
suspects that Israelis will respond to the president with "the usual
default option, in which military aggressiveness and diplomatic
suckerhood go hand in hand in perfect harmony." That's the tragic fruit
of a culture built on a self-image of weakness and victimization.

That
self-image is so pervasive, it has now become a self-fulfilling
prophecy that can shape Israeli policy. According to an unnamed "senior
Israeli official" quoted in Ha'aretz,
"Israel is skeptical" that US envoy George Mitchell "would be able to
coax Arab states to make concrete normalization commitments if only a
temporary settlement freeze was declared." In other words, since we
know that the other side hates us and will never make peace, we won't
take a first step toward peace.

Most Israelis share this view, according to columnist Shmuel Rosner in the Jerusalem Post:

It
is clear to the vast majority of Israelis that freezing the settlements
will not bring about peace or security. That's why one doesn't see many
Israelis supporting Obama's attempt to freeze the settlements. That's
why no major political party in Israel can afford to be identified with
the Obama way. It will be politically damaging.

Of
course "it is clear" is only based on Israeli beliefs, not facts.
Beliefs and feelings, on the other hand, are what drive voter sentiment
in Israel as everywhere else.

With so many voters affecting a
posture of permanent victimization, the government finds it politically
safest to avoid taking even the first baby steps toward peace. Instead
Israeli leaders play on the voters' fears (what Rosenblum calls
"paranoia") by promising the other side of the coin: a more aggressive
stance. They insist on expanding settlements, for example, even though
Israel stands to lose far more than it can gain.

Two Israeli
academics now have statistical data to confirm that fear has largely
muted the Israeli public discourse on peace. The study,
by Prof. Daniel Bar-Tal and Dr. Eran Halperin, showed that most Jewish
Israelis view the conflict with the Palestinians through the lens of
fear, which creates "a selective and distorted processing of
information aimed at preserving conflict-beliefs." On the other hand,
"only a small minority of Israelis evaluate the conflict through the
ethical lenses of justice and morality."

The researchers claim
to have found a silver lining: "People who were exposed to a scenario
emphasizing the price Israel might have to pay for allowing the
conflict to continue were more willing to accept new information and
compromise, in comparison to those exposed to a scenario based on the
fruits of peace." Logically, then, Israeli leaders should tell their
voters that they stand to lose plenty if they don't support compromises
for peace.

But here's the rub. If Israeli leaders express, or
even hint at, that obvious truth, they will give public voice to the
self-image of vulnerability and victimhood. They will reinforce the
very anxiety that the existence of Israel was supposed to relieve, yet
never did. And the voters will reject them.

Again, Israelis are
stuck in a difficult plight: As long as the same old self-image
pervades Israeli political culture, any policy their government adopts,
whether for war or peace, will only intensify their anxiety. And their
most familiar response to anxiety about weakness is to get tough.

The
need to be tough--to prove that Israel won't be "driven to its knees"
because Israelis are not "suckers"-- goes far toward explaining the
Netanyahu government's hardline positions. Most voters, having decided
that they will always be victims, apparently want their leaders to use
force in an endless attempt to prove to the world (but even more to
themselves) that they are not powerless victims.

Of course that project is doomed to fail.
It only perpetuates the conflict, reinforcing the sense of
victimization that provokes more calls for force. Since the root of the
problem lies in national self-image, nothing that any other nation does
can make much difference. People caught in such a trap naturally have a
hard time seeing any way to break out and extend a hand of peace to the
other side. Instead they resort to the familiar pattern of blaming
others, which sets the vicious cycle going all over again.

Perhaps Israelis will some day be so afraid of the dangerous consequences of rejecting peace that they will turn toward peace.

But
it seems more likely that real peace will begin only when enough
Israelis decide that they no longer want to define themselves by their
traditional self-image, that they want a new one to match the reality
of their power. Then the majority of Israeli voters will be able to
find national pride not in the exercise of power but in the pursuit of
peace. When that day comes, we can expect the Israeli government to
begin sincerely and earnestly pursuing peace.