When Cindy Sheehan marched into Crawford, Texas to ask President Bush why
her son died in Iraq, it was Mother's Day. Not the Hallmark-infused, soft
focus, breakfast-in-bed Mother's Day that shows up on the calendar in May.
This was the day that Julia Ward Howe envisioned when she created Mother's
Day in 1870 as a time for all the mothers who lost their sons in the Civil
War to protest the senseless violence.
Howe's Mother's Day Proclamation begins:
Arise then... women of this day!
Arise, all women who have hearts!
Cindy Sheehan has risen up against the senseless violence of this war in
Iraq, and countless women and men have risen up with her. The numbers at
Camp Casey continue to swell, and support pours in from all corners of the
globe. While George Bush says he feels Sheehan's pain but must "get on with
his life," Sheehan's supporters are uprooting themselves from their
lives-often at great personal sacrifice-- to vigil beside her in the hot
Texas sun. Tired of seeing our soldiers and countless Iraqis die in an
unjustified war, millions of Americans-especially mothers--are joining
Sheehan's revolution of the heart. And in the process, they're exposing
Bush's own heartlessness for refusing to meet with a grieving mother, and
more tragically, for needlessly putting our sons and daughters in harm's
way.
Those in the smear-Cindy camp have told Sheehan, in no uncertain terms, that
she should go back home, where she belongs. But Sheehan has followed Julia
Ward Howe's imperative:
As men have often forsaken
the plough and the anvil
At the summons of war,
Let women now leave all that may be left of home
For a great an earnest day of counsel.
Sheehan's hoped-for day of counsel with Bush may never arrive. But another
sort of counsel is taking place, the sort that Howe imagined:
Let them meet first, as women, to bewail and commemorate the dead.
Let them solemnly take counsel with each other as to the means
Whereby the great human family can live in peace.
This is precisely what is happening at the vigil in Crawford, Texas. Women
are running the camp itself, organizing Sheehan's schedule, holding women's
circles to share their grief and hope, writing letters appealing to Laura
Bush, and strategizing ways to broaden and deepen this movement for peace.
During the Vietnam era, the anti-war movement was fueled primarily by
students. Today, the anti-war movement is being fueled largely by mothers.
Look at some of the organizations that have been created in the last few
years: CODEPINK: Women for Peace, Gold Star Families for Peace, Military
Families Speak Out, Raging Grannies. All of them reflect a mother's intense
desire to not only shield her children from harm but to stop her children
from doing harm to others.
Again, we hear the voice of Julia Howe.
We, the women of one country,
Will be too tender of those of another country
To allow our sons to be trained to injure theirs.
In a recent statement urging Americans to listen to Cindy Sheehan, Elizabeth
Edwards said, "If we are decent and compassionate, if we know the lessons we
taught our children, or if, selfishly, all we want is the long line of the
brave to protect us in the future, we should listen to the mothers now."
Thanks to Cindy Sheehan, the mothers have arisen. Thanks to Cindy Sheehan,
the world can't help but listen. Hopefully, George Bush is also hearing the
message.
Medea Benjamin and Gayle Brandeis are members of CODEPINK: Women for Peace, a group that has been actively involved in the vigil in Crawford, Texas. Medea Benjamin is co-founder of CODEPINK, founder of Global Exchange, and nominee for the 2005 Nobel Peace Prize. Gayle Brandeis is the author of The Book of Dead Birds, which won Barbara Kingsolver's Bellwether Prize for Fiction in Support of a Literature of Social Change.
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