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Building Community, Building Peace
In our techno-saturated society, we have the casual capacity to capture any unfolding event on film — even an act of shocking violence — and send images of the live action around the globe just by whipping out a cell phone.
Two years ago, Chicago’s Fenger High School had its 15 minutes of horrific fame when the beating death of one of its students, an honor student named Derrion Albert — waiting for a bus after school, caught suddenly in a surge of gang violence, savagely beaten with two-by-fours and railroad ties — was recorded on someone’s cell camera and became an international spectacle.
What we lack, it would seem, is the capacity to do anything about the violence itself. We remain trapped within a context of thought that reduces our interaction with the world, and ourselves, to winning or losing, domination or defeat. The public — or perhaps what I mean is the official — imagination, reflected in and defined by our media, runs the gamut from zero tolerance to metal detectors and surveillance cameras. That’s the best we can do —“show them who’s boss” — and it accomplishes nothing except to make matters worse.
The good news is that, in certain corners of the world, especially where things are really bad — in Chicago’s public school and juvenile detention systems, for instance — the official imagination is changing. The people in charge are open to trying something new. That’s why Robert Spicer is at Fenger.
He’s the “culture and calm coordinator.” This is not a hollow title. Spicer, a long-time teacher in Chicago schools and former staffer at the Chicago Justice for Youth Institute, is trained — and a passionate believer — in an array of practices and a philosophy that are known as Restorative Justice, which is to say, justice that heals and transforms rather than punishes. It’s the opposite of “zero tolerance,” the name for the wave of get-tough authoritarianism that first attacked the country’s drug problem, then, post-Columbine, took aim, futilely, at youth violence and alienation.
“The fundamental premise of restorative practices is that people are happier, more cooperative and productive, and more likely to make positive changes when those in authority do things with them, rather than to them or for them,” Ted Wachtel and Paul McCold explain in a paper called “From Restorative Justice to Restorative Practices: Expanding the Paradigm,” at the International Institute for Restorative Practices website.
“The social science of restorative practices is an emerging field of study that enables people to restore and build community in an increasingly disconnected world.”
Restore and build community. Isn’t that what we’ve forgotten, or maybe never quite learned, how to do? This isn’t a simple — certainly it’s not a simplistic — process.
“There are stresses in a community,” Spicer said to me as we talked one morning at Fenger. “Restorative Justice holds that space. Volatile anger — all that stuff.”
He’s talking about the peace circle process — a remarkably durable social container in which people with serious animosity toward one another can sit together calmly, maintain eye contact, speak their truth, listen and be heard. This doesn’t happen quickly, but through a slow process of establishing trust. Usually a talking piece is used. You speak only when you are holding the talking piece; when you’re not, you listen.
“In the first few days after I got here, I did a peace circle” in response to a staff conflict. “I came with my rock and my rug. This is the new technology we’re bringing into the school system — not a widget, not something up on a computer screen.”
The rock was the talking piece. The rug is placed in the center of the circle, creating a center that begins, symbolically, to hold it together. The participants sit in a state of what I call vibrant equality. Everyone’s presence is crucial to the whole. The circle keeper gently maintains the structure but otherwise participates simply as a person, same as everyone else no matter his or her rank or position outside the circle.
At Fenger, circles have included not just students but teachers, staff and even police officers — who, I was told at a peace rally at Fenger I attended last spring, spoke freely, honestly, and felt safe enough to apologize for their own mistakes, sometimes in tears. This is a powerful process.
“Through the Restorative Justice process,” Spicer said, “the energy (of a community) can be diverted in a positive direction. Conflict transformation is the key. . . . You’ll never find me running away from conflict.”
Derrion’s murder happened a few weeks after Spicer started working at Fenger — an eruption of the old forces. Since then, through the introduction of restorative practices such as peer juries, in which student volunteers hear cases of harm-causing student behavior and recommend solutions; and a shift from detention and suspension for students who get into trouble to mandatory “personal development” training (how to ask for help, how to apologize, how to listen and other fundamental life skills), the Fenger climate has turned around.
Fenger, through the leadership of Spicer and principal Elizabeth Dozier, is recreating itself as a peace school. This is the most fitting way I can imagine honoring Derrion Albert’s memory: by showing all of us how to claim a better future.
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Show AllI love this! Maybe our impotent Congress should try a peace circle.
Robert Koehler, I heard you interviewed on the Karel show Tuesday afternoon and you are a jewel. Your compassion, empathy and big heart are so evident in your words; you are making a difference as a peace journalist. Thank you for this civilized, uplifting story that celebrates the power inherent in respecting one another as equals. Just imagine what kind of adults these kids will become with this kind of instruction? Maybe there is hope for a peaceful, equitable world. (a small maybe but one nonetheless).
Yes, this is true education. Don't short change the possibilities, they are endless. It has taken centuries and much suffering to get to this point in time. I like to think of it as growing pains.
Darkness defines Light
"He’s talking about the peace circle process — a remarkably durable social container in which people with serious animosity toward one another can sit together calmly, maintain eye contact, speak their truth, listen and be heard. This doesn’t happen quickly, but through a slow process of establishing trust. Usually a talking piece is used. You speak only when you are holding the talking piece; when you’re not, you listen."
Unfortunately Koehler, like most Jewish writers, fails to give American Indians credit for this process that has been used in our culture for millennia. It's called a Talking Circle and the only one who speaks is the one holding the Talking Stick.
Go ahead Koehler, make your bones by adopting American Indian Culture and not giving credit where credit is due. It's cultural appropriation for profit.
Finally don't pelt me with anti-semitic bull. Jews have a well defined holocaust industry deployed to profit on the victimization of the holocaust. American Indians suffered six time more purposeful deaths, have no genocide industry, and consider ourselves survivors, not victims.
Stop the Jewish commodifying of the American Indian Culture. American Indians can speak for ourselves, just as I have done here.
Why didn't you just proudly tell us the history of the Talking Circle?
It is obvious from the article that it is new to him. Did you ever consider that he didn't know?
Well said, Stone. I concur and especially like what your term "holocaust industry". The Jewish people have pretty much cornered that market - homosexuals and gypsies, are all but forgotten in the Nazi holocaust, not to mention all of the other world-wide cultural genocides, from American Indian to Australian aboriginals and countless others on every continent in the world. Let me include the assault on the land and ocean animal beings, too.
IowaIrish, check out Norman G. Finkelstein's superb book, "The Holocaust Industry: Reflections on the Exploitation of Jewish Suffering".
Stone - As we sit in this electronic Trading Circle together, I, a Jewish man say to you, "I hear you". I would also like to pay homage to the native tribal S. African tradition of truth and reconciliation. Personally, I would feel a litle better if you said, "Koehler, like most American writers" rather than "Jewish writers" as I "feel" that you are making YOUR bone by expressing a prejudice. Or perhaps you have an issue with the Publishing world in general, and one's ability to make a living by being a writer. I'm not sure. I am finished holding the Talking Stick now.
ShadowDancer is right, you're all insane. Koehler writes of a high school teacher that helps bring people together and you all choose to spit darts of contempt because Stone is offended that he wasn't mentioned. Wow.