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Hiding Behind The Skirts Of Women
For eight years, many Americans have justified the war in Afghanistan as a moral battle to "protect" Afghan women. But Afghan women tell another story: more U.S. war will bear them more suffering.
Three decades of foreign occupation -- with little sign of ending -- have led to the complete collapse of more than a century of progress in Afghanistan for women's rights, which reached their peak in the 1970s. Occupation destroyed Afghan public services and created incredible poverty, a perfect void of power ready to be filled by the Taliban (encouraged by the U.S. to counter Soviet influence). Many Afghan women say the collapse poses a greater threat to women's lives: 87 percent are illiterate, 1,600 out of every 100,000 mothers die while giving birth or of related complications, and 1 and 3 women experience psychological, emotional or physical abuse.
Since the 2001 invasion, despite rhetoric of "saving" Afghan women, U.S. policies put in place did not do so. Meanwhile, this week, Congress is debating a $84.2 billion war funding bill that designates only 10 percent of the funds for development assistance -- the rest goes to military efforts. If the United States really cared about the women and children of Afghanistan, it would fund real needs-health care, education, food security- and minimize spending on weapons systems and combat troops. Gen. Petraeus himself outlined a counter-insurgency doctrine of 80 percent non-military and 20 percent military, and told the Associated Press earlier this year that "you don't kill or capture your way out of an industrial-strength insurgency."
But in the "save the women" argument, many say more troops will protect Afghan women from the Taliban. Not so -- increased troop presence will raise the risk as it further incites the Taliban and al-Qaeda and inspires more of their propaganda; as they strengthen, they further destabilize the country, spark many more to live in constant fear or to join the insurgency. Troops cannot defeat an ideology: a RAND Corporation study last year found that only seven percent of terrorist organizations gave up their violent activities as a result of military defeat.
In addition, more troops has led to more civilian deaths through raids, drone attacks and general violence. A 2009 United Nations report found more than 2,100 civilians were killed in Afghanistan last year, a 40 percent rise from 2007; about 700 were killed by international forces. Hundreds of Afghans, in student, women's and human rights' groups, have protested these conditions and called for their end (these protests were largely unreported, however). Admiral Mike Mullen, chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, recently warned that "we cannot succeed ... in Afghanistan by killing Afghan civilians."
The United States must quit hiding behind the skirts of Afghan women and come forward in support of real and sustained peace. Drone attacks, midnight home raids, and increased U.S. military presence only serves to alienate Afghans and fuel support for the Taliban's armed resistance. Afghan women are calling on the Obama administration and Congress for a surge in doctors, teachers, and economic development for food security, job training and infrastructure. If only they would listen.
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A consistent pattern emerges: whenever a population is colonized or similarly experiences a collective loss of power and self-determination, the men turn on the women. Sure, there are always GOOD men in any society who do not operate as thus, but the very concept of machismo in Latin American reflects the idea that impoverished circumstances (i.e. a lack of self-determination in a world where power is too often linked with wealth or access to money) foment the type of social structure(s) where men beat out their frustrations on women one way or another.
I remember how Laura Bush basked in the spotlight with real or imagined pride in her husband for supposedly liberating the destinies of women in Afghanistan. Then the voices from the inside began to emerge with the true story. However by then the cameras moved on and many Americans were left to believe in empty P.R.
One thing that would really help alter this scenario (added to fairer economic circumstances and opportunities) is a global recognition that "military solutions" constitute THE oxymoron of all times.
Well written article...
Afghanistan is a microcosm of US foreign policy, and can be seen as a model for a larger trend of US militaristic and covert intervention around the world...
Interesting to note that women experienced their greatest strides of liberation during the Soviet "occupation" in the 1970's... The Russians were building bridges and hospitals and schools and infrastructure... They were giving capitalists a bad name, and interfering with the corporate imperialists plan to build a pipeline across AfPak and control the Heroin trade...
This is the Exact same thing that the US has done in Colombia and Mexico to control the oil in that region and control the cocaine pipeline...
The CIA trained & funded paramilitary death squads I do their dirty work... In AfPak they are known as Al Qaeda... In Colombia they are graduates of the School of the Americas in Ft. Benning, GA...
The "Syndicate" of BlueBlood bankster families and their Rothschild counterparts launder the drug money thru wall street... And the corporate structure & macro-scale development model gives legitimacy to the wholesale theft of the worlds resources at gunpoint and muscle of the marines...
The "Cartels" tearing up the cities of the US and Mexico are engaged in turf wars over distribution rights, yet they all get their "product" from the same "syndicate"...
The military contractors like monsanto manufacture the chemicals to process cocaine as well as round up ready that they spray on the competitor's coca crops... Dyncorps airplanes spray the crops as well as flying the product out of the jungles...
The CIA Boeing aircraft are used to fly extraordinary renditioned torture victims and smuggle cocaine and heroin... CACI was indicted for running child prostitutes and sex slaves during the Bosnian invasion that used Al Qaeda for ethnic cleansing campaigns, and now the KLA of Kosovo is running the distribution hub for Europe's illicit drug market...
Ray Berthiaume
Wow! An amazing concentration of facts that convict the U.S. of gross bullying and manipulation.
GoldenMean,
good analysis, i agree.
isn't it interesting that we hear about the amount of opium that's leaving afghanastan ($3 billion dollars worth, of which the war-drug lords supported by the US recieve $2.8 billion), yet we (the american/european public) never hear the details of how the heroin is processed and distributed in the MSM. nor does the MSM explain that the taliban's opium production is a fraction of total afgahni production. so..... karzai and the americans have increased production and control 90% of production - isn't that newsworthy enough for our media ?
the cia is a rouge institution w/ it's own independent financing and an agenda that is tied to corporate interests.
a formidable opponent to peace.
it's depressing, b/c the intelligence agencies by design are created to subvert popular social movements. it's 'spooky' that the government is engaged in a broad 'war' on terrorism, when the institution (cia) that birthed terrorism around the world - financed by an invisible budget, augmented w/ drug money - is just a few miles from the white house.
it will be spookier when the full spectrum of cia/terrorism tactics is turned against the public here in north america, when the drones appear over our homes and mysterious men in alleys start asking questions - as political dissidents disappear w/out habeas corpus rights.
one more politically induced shock like 911 - would push us over the threshold into the abyss.
would the public rise to restore democracy ? or will the vast majority look the other way as they put one more flag decal on their car, ignoring the packed fema buses leaving town.
karma is inevitable.
i know - old hat, thanks again for the details (especially the kosovo connection).
...peace
Hey IowaBB...
You are spot on with the next 9-11 false flag attack and the FEMA camps...
I don't think they are ready to carry it out or it would have happened already...
If and when it does, and they declare martial law, I won't be here for the roundups...
I plan to sail away to warmer climes when that happens, and live in Latin America while the US implodes...
I am 34 years old, and I cannot in good conscience bring a child into the world born into a fascist police state...
I have chosen to live my life simply and honestly, to live with integrity and compassion, and leave a small wake...
I rebelled against every piece of advice from my parents and authority figures as a teenager and young adult...
I dropped out of college and travelled and read vociferously until I found my own "golden compass" of intuition...
I started to apply my ethics and values to every choice and action I made, wanting to have no part of the war machine...
I chose a life of voluntary simplicity... Making less than $15,000 per year to not pay taxes & growing some of my own food...
I sought out the experts on how to build homes and ovens out of earthen materials, and learned how to teach others how to build...
Now I make free instructional DIY videos and give lectures at colleges and facilitate workshops on gardening and building with nature...
I believe that growing food and having a home is an inalienable universal human right... Something that the Banksters Exploit...
And I am volunteering my time & $$$ to provide a free open source on-line educational resource for anyone anywhere to teach themselves how to build their own earthen oven and home made from natural and local materials and labor, with simple hand tools, in a safe manner...
I have built ovens & saunas & homes in Brasil, Argentina, Costa Rica, California, Oregon, Washington, Colorado, New York, & Canada...
While the USA isclosing down it's democracy, other countries like Venezuela are blossoming... This gives me hope...
"One thing that would really help alter this scenario (added to fairer economic circumstances and opportunities) is a global recognition that'military solutions' constitute THE oxymoron of all times." - SR
PERFECT! on that "oxymoron of all times", Sioux Rose.
namaste, cm
Sioux Rose
THANK YOU CEE Miracles, and Golden Mean, excellent post!
I was struck that Putin recently spoke of the need for nations to work together to overcome the world financial crisis, and he pointed to human resources and attributes sounding far more humanitarian than the Western "leaders" who push the Disaster Capitalism model even when it means certain death to the poorest on the global food chain, that is when weapons aren't "liberating" them.
You bring up a good point SR...
I believe that the machinations of the "neo-liberal" model of debt servitude through WB loans & IMF austerity measures, coupled with "humanitarian" relief by USAID and the NED (nat'l Endowment for Democracy), and "free-trade" policies enforced by FTAA & WTO...
Are equally if not even more destructive to the lives and livelihoods of people around the world... Than the invasions and occupations of the "neo-conservatives"... Both are carrying out the Strauss/Milton Chicago Boys economic model of " disaster capitalism"... The Neo-liberals like Carter, Clinton, and Owebama are just better at spinning invisible thread to hide the naked ambitions of empire with rhetoric...
And the legacy of drained aquifers and poisoned waters and clear cut forests and stripmined mountains and wags slave plantations and child slave factories and exponential debt that will continue to be a perpetual crushing burden on the livelihood and ambitions of the global south until we have an extended global general strike and jubilee...
Sioux Rose
G.M. Did I say all that? Gee, thanks (LOL). Actually I was blown away by the astute analysis of Ms. Klein in "Shock Doctrine." I put it together with the breathtaking lack of humanity witnessed in the worldwide proliferation of porn (Robert Jensen's, "Getting Off") and in my view both work together to cheapen life and sell it to the highest (sometimes lowest) bidder. When nothing is sacred, when bombs are financed over health care, civilization (at least in our nation) has broken down past the point of return. There must be destruction before the Phoenix can rise again, and I believe the false leaders are courting that fate. There are no words to describe the dimensions of this calamity willfully elected on the part of those who have no right to choose this outcome for the rest of us.
Yes... The pornification of our media in advertising, cinema, TV, video games, and Internet are the cultural equivalent to the economic shock doctrine... Advertising and "programming" attempts to make consumers insecure about their bodies or safety to create insecurity, and promotes commodification of happiness and selfish consumerism to fill the void of existential malaise for being alienated from nature, community, family, and oneself...
The commodification of sex is the essence of porn, and it is the logical expression of a society built on puritanical guilt and economic exploitation... The oversaturation of violent and pornographic images, confounding sex with violence, stimulates the lizard brain of survival instinct... while short circuiting the mammilian brain functions of compassion and cooperation... So even the presence of images on billboards and magazines have a profound subconscious effect on the passive viewer...
I believe that Madison ave has gotten more sophisticated over the decades... In the Fifties the TV was used to perpetuate the myth of rigid conformity and Father Knows Best... Nowadays Ad execs are tapping into the adolescent desire for individualism and the hipster "alternative" memes and images of "anything goes" to appeal to this generation... This libertarian notion of "victimless crime" like porn is a-ok continues to further erode the "social contract" of ethics and virtues that is supposed to differentiate Civilization from anarchy or barbarians... If we allow ourselves to condone torture and porn as normal in our society, than we are no better than the Greeks and Romans decadence with boy sex slaves and public crucifixions...
Sioux Rose
GOLEN MEAN: Brilliant post! You have the kind of mind that can adroitly connect the dots, and I am proud to share a forum with the likes of an intellect like yours! Bravo!
Thank you kindly SR, 7thSon, & AZJoe...
I am also gratful to share this forum with conscientious minds such as yours (plural possessive)...
I like this forum because it reminds me of the Rainbow Gathering...
All are welcome to be a part of the circle, to speak their mind and question others...
We come together as a council of elders, regardless of our age and station in life...
We share what we can, and only take what we need, and help each other along the way...
We hold hands at the edge of the Circle so each of us can see the expressions of one another...
Only the children and pregnant mamas are in the center of the circle, for their greater need for food & attention...
Every brother and sister bring their own unique heart medicine and gifts and skills and goods to share...
There are plenty of "drainbows" who consume without donating food or their labor in the kitchen, some even steal...
However, they are a just ice cubes of scarcity in the ocean of abundance, and they eventually melt & learn to lend a hand...
The Feds & police will try to roadblock folks in the parking lot, and will stroll through the meadows looking for illegal activities...
and will even try to provoke violence or create a big stinking scene sometimes... But they eventually go back down the mountain...
However, it is the Rainbow family that feeds thousands of Katrina victims for months while the Feds and police are AWOL...
This forum is food for my soul...
GOLDEN MEAN
Yes, CD is soulful nourishment which as our circles and lives overlap, we connect and learn to flow upon the expanding ripples of a collective garment none alone could see.
A n-dimensional ensemble of ethereal tethers which acts as a chain letter's spectrum of expanse, an avalanche unseen and moving through life generating ripples of enhanced consciousness.
As your nom de plume knows well, the branching of organic life, from trunk to leaves often follows Fibonacci's lead, from :
ONE is ONE
ONE becoming two
upon each of two, three more grow
upon each of ends of three, five more grow
upon each of ends of five, eight more grow
upon each of ends of eight, thirteen more grow
21, 34, 55, … ( unbelievably so, the bushiness grows )
We are all connected back to the ONE, through each other.
Our faces and nature reflect this MEANingful GOLDEN ratio, increasing more accurate approximation, for each additional layer compared to the one before.
It is liken to a fractal progression, where each level of outreach and connection recreates the seed that instills meaning in each and every portion of nature -- we cannot help but be ONE.
Namaste
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fibonacci_number
"his job is to share light... And not to master"- Robert Hunter, Lady with a fan
I value your poetic presence weaving various threads of reality together into a kaliedescopic crayola set of wise words and entendres...
The way you play with words and creative use of fonts and punctuation brings technicolor to an otherwise patina medium...
You might as well be a disembodied spirit with the heart of an angel the way you flutter through these pages sprinkling your sunshine...
I like how you change your nom de plume on a frequent basis...
it reminds me that there are multitudes of minds such as yours that are out there in the world...
who aren't here on CD for one reason or another...
And it reminds me how the proof is in the puddin...
It matters not what branding or title or name one has...
it is the quality of function and performance that matter...
Much more than the labels and terms one identifies with...
Which is why your uniqueness transcends the superficial...
I have no idea what your gender, age, race, religion, occupation, or location is...
And in many ways, I'd like to keep it a secret, to keep the mystery athrive...
De nada, GOLDEN.
I muse the winds and storm the gates of little giants imbalanced upon the grinding mill's wings, with my rusty harpoon.
My mastery of mysterious names is not much of a secret, lo sweet smell of once fond ones ( not ill chosen ).
As each name is "renown", I must soon find a new feather dressing, for the tides of marching weasel knaves must render to Caesar.
I'm am repeatedly plucked, having little chance to grow more plumage length. I rage not going into that dark night of many, for reborn I'll be before tea, by any other name …
"One need not hope to persevere"
A mastery of mixed metaphors... As if conscienciously breaking each "rule" of language down...
Deconstructing it into oblivion... And then creating your own sculptural masterpiece out of whole cloth and mood lighting
It is wise to change up your game before your personal style gets co-opted as the hipster meme 'o' the day...
Unless I am misconstruing your literal meaning of shedding this mortal coil all too soon...
Please clarify... For I am confused ...
Yes, as you say "Deconstructing it into oblivion... ", is my predilection to challenge the lies of September, and reap the worlwind of b@nning, often with deletions of oh too scientific and persuasive facts, so so many times that i've been hoisted by their petarded demolition.
Would I could grab fast this mortal coil for surity, to continue that sweet smell, but oh lordy the minions of evil have hacked the admin web sever too often to make my IPness unreachable even to read perchance, w/o the slow but sharp cleverness of my proxies.
I fear not the the least the concern : "It is wise to change up your game before your personal style gets co-opted as the hipster meme 'o' the day...", for the change ONLY comes after my favorite boat is holey demolished. The sea of trouble I wage is raft with deviousness and wicked torpedoes, that I judge come not from the CD direction -- but much deeper and sinisterly hidden.
Perhaps we are all EACH much more important to this battle then we CDould know, so that perseverance is my quintessential nature, to steady on again -- as those windmills didn't fall down because of Arabian horses jousting.
And as 'Mork and Mindy' ( before your time ) TV show's Mork often uttered in humorous prophecy "nano nano", is the acerbic razor's edge of the great Verdugo ( head less, nameless ) exterminator.
I am often demolished for speaking my nano-mind, and that thermite explosively peeves off those with powers beyond mere administrators, or at least that is the best that I can engineer of the free falling of my names.
Is paranoia an accurate conclusion, when the much repeated evidence of many deletions and matching extremes of curtailment of any normal skilled blogger's URL access to CD continues year upon year ?
"… with great power comes great responsibilities"
Race the clock, or this missive may soon become as the dodo, although e'ing SR might answer more
Sister GoldenMean,
You are a beautiful soul! Thank-you for all your insightful sharing. People like you, Sioux Rose, 7thSon, azjoe, and now Luciplicity and many others have enriched my experience immeasurably.
Even though I'm now spending way too much time sitting on me butt in front of this screen, when I should be out in the garden, I am learning much here on CD that is helping me in the work of making the world a better place.
I couldn't pass up the opportunity to tell you this.
Words can be like healing water. I want you to know how your words have contributed to my experience, and that I will hold that good energy inside just long enough to enjoy the buzz, then let it flow out freely so flowers may grow in the little wake you've created.
Keep teaching the people how to live with Mother Earth in simple harmony. Maybe see you in New Mexico in early July (if I make it). Tres Piedras.
"There's a rainbow in the sky all the time, don't be blind" -Ziggy Marley
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ixcaita_fyc
Peace, Love and Inity! ~Moondoggy
Hey Moondoggy...
If you do make it down from Montana to New Mexico this year...
You can find me at the Montana Camp near the Montana Medics (not Montana mud)
I am the guy with the red beard and brown cowboy hat...
Thank you for your wise words...
I agree... Our words and actions here on CD and in the real world have monumental power at this time in history...
I write these words not just for you and me and the other vocal folks on this thread... But for the hundreds, maybe thousands of people who may happen to read this as well... Who knows what energies these ripples of thought will release and radiate from new sources...
Brother GoldenMean!
You're a very balanced individual and that's why I mistook you for a woman. No offense, of course, it's actually a compliment. Your words have power and meaning. The truth is rich, ain't it!
I hope to make it down to NM. Although it'll be hard to justify traveling that far since I just got back from Taos a coupla weeks ago, which is how I found out about the gathering being there this year.
I really owe it to myself to go to another national gathering since I haven't been to one since 1979 in Alpine, Arizona. I was just a year out of high school and it was a real transformational experience for me. I learned so much there that I now emulate in my own life: living on the land, composting, baking in an earthen oven, living in a tipi, praying in a sweat lodge...
I wish that every young person would go to the Rainbow Gatherings. You cannot attend one without leaving a better person. Those ripples will go out and heal our loving Mother Earth. Aho.
Peace brother! Jah guide and protect InI
Hi MD, yes. Are not GM & Luciplicity, iowabb, learning experiences. GM (& zmann) helped me deeply several weeks ago via wise direction they proffered. I too thought GM a woman at 1st, what a compliment to that man. Ya know, re your question below, I got my clones from a friend although they sell them over the counter around here, but might you access BC Seeds I think it is?....It's not too late to plant.
God I wish I could hit Tres Piadres. I have been to 1 gathering, but for 6 weeks from seed camp to 7/4 .......and it was in Tres Piadres,
But my girls will have 2-3 weeks to go then, I'll be holding their hands....
Peace Peace, Joe from the snowline.
Yo Joe, It's almost my bedtime. Thanks so much. You're a cool bro, ya know, Joe?
I've been wanting to go to another gathering, but I am always deep into gardening during that time. I've learned the hard way that if you go away, disaster befalls the crop. So I keep vigil.
The gathering I went to was a milestone in my life. A rights of passage. I went their a boy, and I left a man (even though I was 18). It was exactly the medicine I needed to continue on my path. If I hadn't of gone, my life would be the less.
So I guess I got what I needed, because I never went back, although I am always there in spirit every year from July 1-7. I feel a strong connection to the Rainbow Family. In a way I never left the gathering. I've carried it with me ever since.
It was like I took a small piece of the sacred fire and kept a glowing ember and have lit all my fires from that initial spark. My life is really a continuation of that one Rainbow Gathering I was so blessed to attend in 1979. I remember it like it was just last year.
Kiss your girls goodnight for me from high in the Rockies!
That was a wonderful couple of posts, GOLDEN. You tied so much together, connecting all the dots, as SIOUX said.
GM, I too humbly submit that post blew me away.
The reason you will never see the truth told on television , is because too many people are watching.
(Coluche)
At least Saddam was bringing secularism to the ME.
Obama is coming to Los Angeles next week. May 27th. Beverly Hilton. 4pm. I understand that some are planning to demonstrate their opposition to these continual war policies. Perhaps there could be a formal posting of this event?
The very idea of the fascist Dems and the nazi Repubs doing ANYTHING for women is laughable. Women, underpaid, are a fine resource for predatory capitalism, the theme of the United States.
Afghan women have been forced into a PTSD type hell. However, unlike soldiers, they can be reasoned with. An Indian man told me about the ancient Vedic Era where women had the upper hand and there were even famous female leaders and warriors. Although I appreciate the perfect summary of the hell Afghan women are going through, there needs to be descriptions written about what's going on with the Afghan men who can only put up with this so far until they push back. In any society, women are the basis of all life no matter how far some men will go to abuse them. I wished Jodie Feder had won the House seat over Frank Wolf so that I could ask her to ask the women serving in Congress their thoughts about the hell Afghan women are going through and what if any plans to correct this. There are some great Congresswomen ready to speak out on this matter but I wished more of them would join in and try to push the guys in Congress to show a little respect for the Afghan women. And what about Michelle Obama? What's the matter with her and why won't she snap Obama out of this?
It's one thing to reason with them but first they need our full respect and dedication. They're the underpriviledged. I do agree that Afghan men need to be factored in but it's hard to know who's good and bad in their realm. I think more Afghan men will come around when the women are empowered first. There needs to be a set of checks and balances between the two genders.
When the CIA gave out Viagra pills to Afghan Leaders as reward to point out Taliban members,who knows if the accused were really Taliban?I thought that the wives, some underage,and some forced to marry were being used as sex objects by the CIA to get Taliban prisoners. President Karzai signed the Shia Family Law into a law for all of Afghanistan that negated the need for sexual consent in marriage, legalizing rape.I don't know if world pressure forced him to change that religious law against women or not. But obviously women are no better off under U.S. occupation. The Taliban group mentality is a religious belief and you cannot kill a religious belief with a gun or bomb.America needs to find another path to national security. Yes we can do it!
Sioux Rose
GENIE: Thanks for pointing out these insidious links. It's amazing what leaders will stoop to in order to twist arms and make deals. Women are just cheap collateral damage with the possible (but not always the case) exception of their wives.
Women nurture. Create life. Care for love and raise their boys to become men.
And their girls to become women. But what Love prevails over our avalanche of societal dementia?
Little boys playing with guns,
And little girls worried about their looks, their sexuality before they are 5 years old.
I puke every time I purchase food at any supermarket, where i see little girls in line looking at the airbrushed non-humans on Glamour & Seventeen's covers. I wish women as a whole would tear those racks down.
I'm white and used to ask black guys not to use that effin n word, I'm a father also, and I taught my beautiful daughter to Love God, be honest, and that most men are pigs. This baseed on their greed, selfishness and dishonesty.
On the other hand, most women in my experience kind of quietly live their lives and don't bother others. Maybe feed a stray instead of kick it.
Yup, I'm sexist, no doubt about it.
azjoe,
I'll take your words for it. You're cool.
DD, I 100% apologize if I sounded like I was attempting to project that. I'm just a very simple person confused by the world he was born into.
I am poor. I am a failure by a thousand different measures, take your pick.
I struggle, I cry-weakness by definition, how could a failure, one so weak he cries if he thinks about his dead son be cool?
PS, one takes someone's word for something, not "words," for anything. Take my word for it Dennis. Sincerely, joseph from northern california.
hey Joe...
I must say that you have shown a tremendous amount of conscientious growth within your own heart and psyche over the last few months... Your tone and verse have been on a more authentic frequency and timbre...
I used to skip over your posts... Now I take the time to hear you and enjoy what you have to say...
I am sorry for the loss of your son... That is one of the most challenging & traumatic experiences any human could endure...
I recognize strength and courage and hard-earned wisdom in you, Joseph, for the way you continue to persevere despite the obstacles...
Your sensitivity is an ability to truly listen to another's drama/trauma, and your gift to share with others is your compassion for human folly...
You are able and willing to forgive yourself for whatever came before... Which is the hardest thing to do...
I find humor to be the sweetest medicine for spiritual growth...
And one's ability to laugh at one's mistakes and circumstances is a useful tool in most any situation...
Peace Love & Light
azjoe,
"simple person confused by the world"
you're not alone - many of us are overwhelmed by this life. it's a human feeling, it's okay to be a human being.
thank you for your honesty and sincerity, you expressed feelings that all of us feel - at some point in our journey - .
you are not a failure and i enjoy reading your stories (for example the story of playing the piano for the homeless) insights, and the courage you demonstrate when you express your thoughts (whether they are popular or not) on these pages.
More to Homelessness than Needing a Home, by Elissa Ely
http://www.commondreams.org/view/2009/03/29-2
{azjoe March 29th, 2009 2:35 pm
Dancing In Shadows? Your post is in the light. "Homeless," people know this truth-If you have a penny in your pocket and two people you can call friends, you are the richest person in the world. Hunger has taught them that sharing is good. Pain has made them empathic and caring. A stark contrast from the contempt houseless people see in the eyes of those who have many "things" they can touch.
Life is good, a gift, a kiss before the embrace.
ShadowDancer, i grow medicine i smoke, and now I do in your honor.}
joeseph - i also am an empathic person, some of us are that way from birth - and are very susceptible to feeling deep sadness. i'm sorry for your loss. i wish you well.
w/ respect and,
...peace...
iowablackbird, GoldenMean, zmann & Sioux Rose,
May the good Lord be with you, down every road you roam.
And may sunshine and happiness surround you when you're far from home.
And may you grow to be proud, dignified and true.
And do unto others as you'd have done unto you.
Be courageous and be brave, and in God's heart you'll always stay
Forever young (forever young)
Forever young (forever young)
EAEAE...F#m7,A,C#m7,AEAE,
The fabric of reality is not flat like cloth but multidimensional and every particle, thought and action is intrinscally connected in concert and throughout time. We may not meet on this plane, we will laugh with angels though as eternity is revealed to be a preview for The Show.
The heart & soul you four share would warm the air on a cold day.
Corazon de Alma. Por Dios. For Love. To the Light.
B e a u t i f u l
Sioux Rose
AZJOE: This is an ILLUMINED thread to which a few very enlightened persons have added their thoughts and sentiments. In short, it reflects the best that CD can be.
Please do not think of your son as dead as his spirit is intact in a dimension less dense and physical than this one. Try reading ANY book by Dick Sutphen, such as: "You were Born AGain to be Together," or "Past lives, Future Loves." I also like Roger Woolger's work on this subject.
GOLDEN: I have thought about South AMerica, myself, as I am currently mostly published in Spanish, and I speak it (although hardly perfectly). The developments "down under" in this hemisphere are indeed promising and evocative. If you should start your own community, please send our flares... some of us may find the means to get there. I happen to own a small sailboat that I bought for a very low price, but then realized it's far harder to operate than my romantic dreams initially revealed. I am debating whether to keep or sell it. I wish I had your courage to set sail as the ancient explorers once did... your Light will open doors wherever you dock.
Hey Sioux Rose...
I envision a waterworld of abundance...
With hydroponic food and medicine and fuel...
Flotillas of peaceful communities of sailboats & barges
Rafted together for support and security...
Cultivating Creativity and Community...
No matter the size of the boat...
It's the devotion to the ocean...
That determines the motion of the potion...
A world of potlatch where giving is the value of wealth...
International citizens transcending the limitations of nation-states and corporate heirarchies...
Citizens of a new "Jerusalem" that transcends all distinctions of age, race, religion, gender, or job...
A floating rainbow where everyone is responsible for themselves and their next of kin...
A temporary autonomous zone where each of us teaches their friends & neighbors...
the skills for living for free... out of the goodness of our hearts...
And knowing it is investment in the "social capital" of the community in which we invariably live within...
azjoe,
thanks for your kind words, also for the dylan tab. the music chamber is a special place in my head, a refuge from the insanity. the guitar is amazing therapy.
i believe the dylan you quoted earlier answers the last question posed by robert hunter/jerry garcia below. yet the question itself is important.
who ?
maybe the innate goodness in our hearts that sparks all compassionate acts.
who ?
why ourselves - each one of us, of course.
we need to find a way to stop this escalation of war in asia, bring the troops back home and find a way to create a peaceful society. it's our burden - for if not us, who ?
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ripple...
If my words did glow with the gold of sunshine
And my tunes were played on the harp unstrung,
Would you hear my voice come thru the music,
Would you hold it near as it were your own?
Its a hand-me-down, the thoughts are broken,
Perhaps they're better left unsung.
I don't know, don't really care
Let there be songs to fill the air.
Ripple in still water,
When there is no pebble tossed,
Nor wind to blow.
Reach out your hand if your cup be empty,
If your cup is full may it be again,
Let it be known there is a fountain,
That was not made by the hands of men.
There is a road, no simple highway,
Between the dawn and the dark of night,
And if you go no one may follow,
That path is for your steps alone.
Ripple in still water,
When there is no pebble tossed,
Nor wind to blow.
But if you fall you fall alone,
If you should stand then who's to guide you?
If I knew the way I would take you home.
La dee da da da, la da da da da, da da da, da da, da da da da da
La da da da, la da da, da da, la da da da, la da, da da.
hunter/garcia ....
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it was an illuminated thread, once again a positive learning experience.
- welcome home -
...peace...
We interrupt this program to bring you the following:
Thanks for sharing such beautiful truth iowablackbird. And thanks for the lyrics to Ripple. My step-daughter knows it by heart, but I've gone to Dead shows on and off for 30 years, and I always feel left out when this number comes up. I look around and everyone else is singing along and I'm like: I should know this by now.
I think it's one of their most beautifully written songs. Now, since I read this post originally about an hour ago, I've had this tune going in my head. Thanks!
And I concur: "we need to find a way to stop this escalation of war in asia, bring the troops back home and find a way to create a peaceful society."
Oh, look, it's almost 4:20!
iowablackbird you spoke the most important words, we must stop the wars.
ibb, there is only one possible way. mass protests, demonstrations of hundreds of thousands in one place at one time. Over and over and over at the Nevada Drone Base, the White House, the Holland Tunnel, march down freeways at rush hour, half a million furious protesters. Waves.
ibb, the Ripple effect of a few hundred thousand Americans willing to go to these lengths repeatedly would be We Could Change Almost Anything.
I wish I was a headlight, on a North bound train.
" " " "
I'd shine my headlight, through the cool Colorado rain.
I know you Rider, gonna miss me when I'm gone....
A pretty little Hippie died and went to Heaven, St. Peter is showing her around when she points and exclaims, "Look, there's Jerry Garcia playing the guitar in Heavan!" But St. Peter just laughs, says "Nahh honey, that's just God PRETENDING to be Jerry Garcia."
It would take massive demonstrations to stop these wars.
And the FCM is obviating that via brain salad surgery by tv.
Ripple, the sweetest song The Dead ever did.
And it still radiates outwards, Ripple.
"Ripple, the sweetest song The Dead ever did."
I agree. My favorite song by them. "Uncle John's Band" would probably be my second fave.
A Z J O E,
Please don't buy into poor being a failure, as that tired meme is dragging us all towards wall-eyed St's depraved oblivion.
A rich man is one whose smiles and cultivates connections to others, which bring in return joyous multiplied celebration and kinship.
Choose better measures and mark your passage in honoring the light in others, and raising the torch high for them to see for themselves.
Despite thousands, there are millions of subtle interplays of good deeds blossoming upon one another -- as that count of apples in a seed, compared to mere seeds in an apple.
I feel you anguish and sorrow and it brings my own tears and compassion expressed, for I so worry too, of what world I leave to my son -- could I have lived larger and made something … else happen ?
Please be at home in peaceful calm, and recall that the weeping willow survives the stony winds force, whilst the oak croaks. For who is to say that the Tao te Ching is foolish to muse that water the softest of elements, that cannot be grasped nor throttled, is the stronger laid upon the mountains back - now mere sand grain re-sized.
Our word is a bond and promise of our inner honor and hope for the future we dream.
Namaste
Luciplicity, you just took me by the hand, and for a stroll into my soul. By the streams of my consciousness I learned to relax into the pain, into that peaceful calm, at a Rainbow Gathering from one brilliant man. How many colors can you see in the fire? It is when counting the colors in fires, loving the trees the moss like lace that I've felt your spirit mayhap.
It is one thing to touch someones heart, to adroitly, gently and with wisdom share a oneness with their essence is another. You rocked me to come out and say it.
Our words flow from our hearts, they are our souls. I am still assimilating the grace and beauty of your last sentence.
I feel humbled by the strength of your post, in a great, most good way.
Anjali
Sioux Rose
AZJOE: You care and that shows you've retained your humanity. Too many men bypass this issue as if it's already been solved or not their problem. Some of these types probably convince themselves that they have outgrown any sexist leanings, but it's so deeply ingrained that few notice it. Lately I've seen an awful lot of demeaning references (sexual) to women in movies. The repeated articulation of this idea that the female only exists to service the male is unbelievably destructive, and far more so for young girls who have not yet had a chance to be out in the world to develop a firm and strong identity.
It's particularly tragic that the sacred things in life, of which loving sexuality rates as one, have been so crudely commodified. Some men have scars from women who were powerful in the art of seduction, only to leave them with broken hearts (or wallets, in the case of acrimonious divorce settlements). Women (some) have had to learn to use their looks when all other powers were closed off to them for centuries!
In the book I just finished where I link the astrological signs with the stories from myth I chose Aphrodite, the alluring goddess of sensuality to represent Pisces. This sign is known for ambushes of fate, chameleon-like qualities, and can operate like a Venus fly-trap. Then CD published that it was Barbie's (the sexy doll) 50th birthday, and sure enough, that little icon that has caused how many girls to develop a habit for bulimia, is Pisces! (Or a Pisces "development," as it emerged as its own entity in March, 50 years ago). She's the toy equivalent of that Venus fly-trap and a powerful image in the lives of many young females.
Hi SR, ca va? Yeah, I caught Barbie going fifty, I was so thrilled-she has aged so well. I'd just kill for her secret. Could it be diet? Excersize? Well, I guess we can just thank Mattel for another generation of role models for Young American Girls.
But it's really the guys I'm happy for-because being raised amidst plastic icons, airbrushed airheads & looking into eyes that don't look back prepares them for futures with their real wives who will bore with them quickly. And whose eyes will then dull, who will then stop listening, and who will then leave. With the children.
And it begins in pre-school.
Probably with the teachers themselves, often stereotypical.
Why are you proud to be sexist?
Amazingly, you probably would have a problem with someone who didn't want Hilary Clinton to become president because of her gender...
Would you be proud to be racist?
You present an argument whereby you declare that "most" men are pigs, and "most" women aren't. You can't prove this, of course. What is the use of this type of stereotyping?
It reminds me of how people defend their racism against African-Americans, "there are more of them in prison, therefore they are more criminal than other races" or "in my personal experience, you can't trust most black people".
It's pure BS.
You can't take statistics or limited "personal experience" to create judgments against millions (or in this case BILLIONS) of people. Guilt by association is a seriously flawed concept. You should be ashamed.
"I'm white and used to ask black guys not to use that effin n word"
Oh dear, you're one of those...
I'm more offended when white people say words like "howdy", "nifty", or "twitter".
BTW the words are "fuckin" and "nigga".
On a site that discusses warfare and torture you should stop being so squeamish about language. Grow up.