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This Year, Why Not Try Something Different?
ONE THING I am thankful for on Thanksgiving weekend is having absolutely no desire to go to the mall. I cannot remember the last time I did so, which by extension leaves me utterly out of touch with the national impulse to waddle out of bed at 4 a.m., especially the morning after the biggest collective burp on the American calendar.
It seems that it is not enough for Americans to watch football on turkey day. Obviously inspired by our beloved black-and-blue brutality, otherwise sane Americans treat Black Friday as their day in the NFL, blasting through the hole of the store opening to the 20-, the 30-, the 40-, the 50-percent-off sweater department! Then you chop-block the shopper ahead of you to advance from 53d to 52d in the checkout line.
All this sweat, tears, and occasional blood for the argyle for dear old Dad that becomes moth bait.
This year is, of course, different. Black Friday really turned tragic as a
This would seem like a great time to reassess the difference between what we want and what we need, both for the wallet and the planet. The National Retail Federation estimates that 49 million Americans were sure to go shopping this weekend. That is one-sixth of America. Depending how deep the discounts go, up to 128 million Americans could clog the aisles, over a third of the nation. One shopping center in Wisconsin, which opened at midnight after Thanksgiving, offered free pajamas to shoppers who came in pajamas. Mattel is throwing $50 Visa cards at $100 Barbie shoppers. Department stores were offering toys at half off and bringing back layaway plans.
The federation said this week, "For the first time since March 2005, the average price of self-serve, unleaded gasoline is $1.91, leaving shoppers with a little extra padding in their wallets . . . Shoppers who held off buying a DVD player or winter coat over the last few months will find that prices may literally be too good to pass up."
Like crack cocaine, I suppose. The Associated Press, in getting the reaction of motorists to the price of gasoline falling to an average of $1.79 in Columbus, Ohio, quoted one woman as saying, "It's awesome. With this gas guzzler, there was no way I could afford to keep paying, the way we're going."
It would be far more awesome to stop the addiction. A growing number of families have gone cold turkey on turkey day, banning the blizzard of boxes under the Christmas tree in lieu of charitable gifts to people really in need. Now, more than ever, with a planet disproportionately fouled by our pollution and waste (Americans waste 27 percent of food, according to the government), we need to ask: Does my kid really need that toy? Do I really need to upgrade my cellphone? Is happiness really wrapped up in the 50-percent-off sweater?
I have a suggestion for these holidays. The average American, according to the government, consumes six times more energy than the world average. Take whatever you spent on gifts last year, slash 5/6ths of it, and see what you can do with the rest - unless of course you make a charitable donation. You're broke anyway, right, so what's the harm? Chances are, your loved ones won't love you any less, someone in need will love you more, and your children might understand a bit more how the rest of the planet lives.
And the planet itself can give thanks for being a few pieces of plastic less in peril.
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Show AllThere is unfortunately no truth to the report that George Wanker Bush was trampled to death during a stampede by fanatical shoppers as the Wal-Mart in Dallas opened for business just before dawn yesterday. Sorry.
It becomes more apparent every year that our entire economy is based on shopping and spending. We all remember President Bush's effort to get the nation back to normalcy after September 11 2001 was based on suggestions to travel and keep spending money. Not that people weren't plenty willing anyway.
What ever happened to saving? When the government needs money it has to be borrowed from overseas, we no longer encourage saving, our tax codes don't promote saving, parents don't encourage their children to save and a big debt seems to mean nothing.
The spirit of Christmas now apparently means it's OK to trample and kill people in a legitimate rush for a bargain, don't offer help, just keep spending and keep the economy going.
I wonder if President elect Obama will make a statement on how he feels about the level to which we have allowed our capitalistic society to take us?
50 million rushing to buy more crap is 1/6 of all Americans, but more like just over 1/3 of potential real customers (130M taxpayers, plus a few million non-taxpayers, minus a few million too broke to buy, minus the incapable.)
The fact that one-third of us can't shake out of the brainwashing and the denial at this point is truly pathetic. Materialism still reigns, in spite of massive job losses, huge drops in average salaries, negative savings, an average credit card debt of over $5,000, etc.
Apparently, nothing short of full spectrum collapse can convince "us" to alter our "lifestyles" even an iota. And even then, there will surely be millions loading up on stuff they don't need and can't afford... what a sick culture...
what a sick culture...
You said it!
"President-elect Obama has said for two years the planet is in peril. That originally only referred to global warming. But Americans keep thinking we can pilfer the planet at no peril. SUV sales are already picking up again now that gasoline is back under $2 a gallon, at the very same time we whine like the Wicked Witch of the West, shrinking to our knees screaming that our wallets are "melting! melting!" ... The Associated Press, in getting the reaction of motorists to the price of gasoline falling to an average of $1.79 in Columbus, Ohio, quoted one woman as saying, "It's awesome. With this gas guzzler, there was no way I could afford to keep paying, the way we're going.""
Now that gas is too cheap to be true, the traffic jams out here in Washington are even more hellish than ever before. Unless you go to work at 5AM, expect a 1-2 hour wait just to get 15 miles to work ! And the metro rail system in Washington isn't doing much better. Peak Oil isn't very far off though so maybe there'll be another kick in the pants. Besides, it's just election season so the prices will shoot right back up in January and after.
I'm still hearing people on tv saying "We need to find a way to get the customers out there buying - it's the only way we're going to get the economy going again!"
Our tax dollars are being handed to the Wall Street fat cats with no strings, and being spent on expensive trips and big bonuses, and they're yelling for more. It's time to pull the plug. Show them how we can manage just fine on all the junk we've been buying, and piling up in our garages and spare rooms for years.
The more people follow that suggestion, the less people will laugh at the idea of frugality and conservation. In addition, that'll help us shut down that "economy is driven mainly by consumer spending" bullshit. If the economy collapses because spending goes down, no big deal. It's not like we're going to die or anything like that. We'll all do just fine spending less.
Meanwhile, as the millions of non-Christians dutifully stampeded a man to death in order to enter their houses of worship and do due reverence to their god, there were a few who , as true believers in the Christ, kept on working to end the illegal and immoral war in Iraq, who went into the inner city to feed the poor, who held a pregnant teen with aid so that she would not abort her child, who visited the sick in hospitals and those in jail.
Imagine what a fine world it would be if all the people in our country would take to heed the words of the Christ and live accordingly. Of course, that would be a miserable existence for corporate fat cats as we spent our money on people and not things. Terrible existence for military armaments manufacturers as we refused by the millions to send our children off to yet another war fabricated by lies. Horrible existence for those who believe that the greatest happiness in life is the acquisition of things.
But..............wouldn't it be a wonderful country?
I'm sure that many of those who trampled would say they are Christians - that's where the problem is.
You don't have to be Christian to do good things.
JaneM
Well said JaneM. I am not Christian and believe I do a lot to help others. It's the only thing that truly brings joy to my heart - to know I made a difference. I would like to know what "FaithfulCatholic" does to help others and make a positive difference in this world. Spewing forth memorized dogma just doesn't cut it.
HAPPY JOYOUS HOLIDAYS TO ALL!
One doctrine of "Christianity" which got the world in this over population mess is the "be fruitful and multiply."
Isn't time to tie the tubes or is mass starvation and war going to be the traditional method of population control, still.
FC, I agree with your sentiment, other than having to be Christian. There are billions on this planet who are not Christian, and many live lives of service to others. There have been many Christs on this planet, bringing a message of hope and salvation to the people of their time and geography.
But, again, spend time and treasure on people, not on stuff, and you will be rich beyond measure!
KY Mike
Sioux Rose
FAITHFUL: Nice words, but how do you reconcile the fact that Catholics, who are against abortion, voted in high numbers for Bush, along with their fundamentalist Christian (Protestant) "cousins." Thus in their shared grief over the never-to-be born fetuses (surely you recognize the soul is inviolate and belongs to God, and thus holds an essence that exists before and beyond and after the body/experience in flesh) voted for a man who made it his policy to viciously KILL over ONE MILLION in Iraq, and how many thousands in Afghanistan, all in pursuit of VENGEANCE for the supposed arch-villain behind an event (911) that may have been another fiction drawn from the macabre imaginations of Hollywood crossed with CIA types?
How do you reconcile the multitudes who voted for this KILLER IN CHIEF while hearing spoken at the pulpits, that he was a Christian and a man of God? And similarly he made his pal Eric Prince, another "Christian" a very wealthy man, for employing a private army of mercenaries paid 5X what U.S. military trained troops are salaried.
How do you reconcile such carnage on so grand a scale with its "leaders" being endorsed by mainstream churches? (Nor are right wing Jews off the hook on similar endorsements.)
I understand that SR. For someone who takes the message of Christ seriously, it was an absolutely HORRIBLE election. Baby killers on both sides -- one Democratic and one Republican. Honestly, there isn't a dimes worth of difference between the two parties anymore, only in the people they maim and kill.
Are you at all familiar with the Catholic Peace Movement. Dedicated to peace, they are completely opposed to war as the solution to a problem. I think they are really living the message.
Are you sure they were all non-Christians? Shopping madness is out there regardless of a person's affiliated religion.
Jason Jordan
Sandpoint, Idaho
Well, touche. You did sort of get me there on my wording because I was talking the "broad brush" approach, that is, to call as "Christians" those who actually live the Lord Jesus Christ's message, and somewhere in that message I remember something about "Blessed are the poor" rather than "Blessed is he who gets first dibs on junk he really doesn't need."
I guess I tend to see things a little too black and white. I tend to call Christians those who are at least trying to live as such.
Whatever Americans give is going to be a drop in the bucket. We give more to charity than any other nation on Earth. It's up to our gov't to start giving to the people instead of corporations and to the military/industrial complex.
Agreeing with JaneM.
Tithing to your church is not charitable giving, any more than is paying your gym membership.
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Here is an idea: http://www.thoughts.com/RedNeckPossie/blog/a-way-to-give-power-back-to-the-people-184665/
This event demonstrates the truth of our idolatry. Getting a good deal is more important than a person's life. Having more stuff is more important than a beautiful environment. Getting it now is more important than our grandchildren's future. They may call themselves "Christian," but they are not. They have exchanged the transcendent teachings of Christ for the materialistic hope of false gods that are destroying the world and this nation.
America may give the largest amount to charity than any other nation in the world (a statistic that I would like to verify), but it is only because we have the greatest GNP in the world to draw it from. Indian Christians sponsor one missionary for every 80 Christians, while American Christians sponsor one for ever 240. Americans give on average 1.75 percent of our income to charity. We have a long ways to go before we live up to our image of ourselves.
As Joni Mitchell says:
I pulled up behind a Cadillac
We were waiting for the light
And I took a look at his license plate
It said "Just Ice"
Is justice just ice?
Governed by greed and lust?
Just the strong doing what they can
And the weak suffering what they must?
And the gas leaks
And the oil spills
And sex sells everything
And sex kills
Sex kills
Doctors' pills give you brand new ills
And the bills bury you like an avalanche
And lawyers haven't been this popular
Since Robespierre slaughtered half of France!
And Indian chiefs with their old beliefs know
The balance is undone crazy ions
You can feel it out in traffic
Everyone hates everyone!
And the gas leaks
And the oil spills
And sex sells everything
And sex kills
Sex kills
All these jackoffs at the office
The rapist in the pool
Oh and the tragedies in the nurseries
Little kids packin' guns to school
The ulcerated ozone
These tumors of the skin
This hostile sun beating down on
This massive mess we're in!
And the gas leaks
And the oil spills
And sex sells everything
And sex kills
Sex kills
Sex kills
Sex kills
Sex kills
These are the true "reasons for the season".
Poet
Obama may be our first environmental president. Take care of our environment and the rest doesn't matter.
My family has agreed to try a "Green Christmas" this year, with gifts being not the color green but environmentally green. Something from a thrift or antique store, something you already have but don't need or would like to pass on, or something like a flashlight with rechargeable batteries would all be good.
Also a donation to the recipient's favorite cause/charity would work, as well as an "activity", such as a good cleaning of the recipient's bathroom/bedroom/kitchen etc. or perhaps a monthly home-cooked dinner.
It will be interesting to see what the family comes up with, and I love the idea of not being part of the "forced march to the mall".
Even the kids seemed to be on board with the idea and they're the ones it is really going to benefit in the future. I'm looking forward to Christmas in a different way now.
Anyone have any more green gift suggestions?
As I read your letter I thought about the loss of a sense of family and community in these times. How about a commitment to sharing dinner at your home with a few friends and neighbors at set times during the year so the promises are kept? And encourage the others to do the same. Dinners do not have to be expensive - but the value of bringing people together for friendship and community: Priceless.
Great thoughts, Derrick. Thanks for sharing. I'm not buying presents this year. I'm giving to charity in the names of those on my holiday giving list.
I am buying ammo and survival food for Christmas. How about you?
Could we please stop saying "Americans" when we mean Usanians or North Americans? (the latter term is correct when Canadians are included) We've got to get used to the idea that we are not the only people who live in the American continent. The combined population of the North American subcontinent - i.e. Canada and Usania - is a little over 300 million. The population of America is nearly a billion. More Americans speak Spanish than speak English.
Mark Marshall
Toronto
Sioux Rose
Perhaps not more than 100 years from now, survivors of the next "great flood" who learn to sustain their breath long enough, or make use of old high tech items salvaged from the ecological wreckage, will uncover the vast fortunes that Mother Nature once again buries.
Do you ever think about it? That even a lower-middle class individual has in their possession the wealth of a royal family from an earlier time? The devices of convenience (duly mocked in the films: Brazil & Time Bandits) we take for granted, the jewelry most of us have (our wedding rings, college rings, the birthday gifts over the years, anniversary presents, etc), the furniture... I almost never buy anything new, and try to make it a daily practice to give thanks and TRULY appreciate what I do have... Americans in large part have lost the capacity to be gracious or to demonstrate gratitude.
The tragedy of the Wal-Mart stampede says it all about a collective consciousness turned schizoid from all the lies it has consumed and been poisoned by.
Having long ago joined what was til recently, the fringe culture of simple living and conservative consumption, initially due to my personal values and then more fully out of necessity and learning, I can vouch that holidays celebrated in alternative ways tend to be very special and free of a lot of the usual stress. It is important to get everyone more or less on the same page, so that expectations and follow through match up, especially for children. Turning off the TV well ahead of the holiday helps. Turning it off permanently helps even more. Getting rid of it is the final solution.
For some families, a new way of celebrating may require a consciousness change, thus might be tough if it isn't implemented in a sensitive and step-wise manner with a lot of discussion and consensus.
Food: planned potlucks, sharing with strangers, and community meals can set the tone.
Gifts: Santa Claus was supposed to know what to bring you because you sent him a list of what you most wanted. Somewhere along the way, probably in marketing departments, that list of what you most wanted became a list of material things. Friends and family are supposed to know what others want because they make the effort to listen, observe, and think creatively about each other. So really great gifts come from the sense of connection and understanding between the various members of your extended tribe. The extended tribe may include a yet to be known person or family who will not have any celebration without the help of strangers. The fact that a gift might be small, regifted, non-material, or in some cases, predetermined has nothing to do with the magnitude of the giving and receiving. The gift is a psychological connecting device along with the gratitude and acknowledgment of that connection. That becomes easy with practice. No mall necessary.
Shared activities: slow down, pay attention, connect, and have fun. Outdoors, community service, participatory games, shared tasks like cooking, and allowance for solitude. The idea is to decompress, regenerate, and connect while giving others a chance to do the same, perhaps together. This isn't so hard.