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Fleeing the Cyber World: Being Young, Here, Now
Meditation groups say cyber generation is looking inward to counter stress
BARRE - Nestled in the woods of this small town, 96 young adults recently gathered at a quiet mansion for a weeklong sojourn, away from buzzing cellphones, humming iPods, and the myriad callings of human and cyber civilizations.
Colleen Cary and others meditated during a retreat last month for those 18 to 32 years old at the Insight Meditation Center in Barre. (Christine Peterson for The Boston Globe) Keeping even the most basic forms of communication, like speaking and writing, to a minimum, they meditated in silence, practicing vipassana, or insight meditation, an ancient Buddhist technique that involves focusing one's attention on the present, on the breath, mind, and body.
"It was just meditate, eat, sleep,'' said Kestrel Slocombe, 19, a student at Vermont's Bennington College who spends much of her time rushing to class, worrying about a novel she's writing, and painstakingly planning her days, sometimes weeks in advance.
"It was almost like being a child, she said. "You didn't have to put together a puzzle of a complicated day.''
At a time when homework or job pressures and the likes of Facebook and Twitter compete for attention throughout the day, meditation groups say an increasing number of young adults are signing up for retreats and classes, seeking a temporary escape, a haven to reconnect with their thoughts.
"Young people are much more stressed out than people 20, 30 years ago,'' said Rebecca Bradshaw, one of the retreat leaders who also works as a psychotherapist. "We have a fast-paced and alienating culture.''
Since the Insight Meditation Society, a Buddhist nonprofit, introduced the retreat specifically for 18- to 32-year-olds in 2004, the number of young adults attending to practice vipassana has steadily risen, said Bob Agoglia, the organization's executive director.
This year's retreat attracted more applicants than ever from 16 states, he said, and for the first time the group had to turn away more than a dozen applicants.
The Cambridge Insight Meditation Center, a nonresidential nonprofit, has also seen a stream of curious young adults at its weekly vipassana, or "mindfulness,'' meditation sessions for beginners, said Peggy Barnes Lenart, the center's operations coordinator.
Harvard's Humanist Chaplaincy, a community for agnostics, atheists, and the nonreligious, started a free, open-to-all group this year that practices different forms of meditation, including Buddhist and Quaker, said Zachary Alexander, 26, the group's founder. Half of its nearly 30 members are under 32, he said.
"It's something that people find can be a break from their stressful lives,'' said Alexander, who considers himself an atheist.
"It can be something that leads to personal insight.''
While traditional Quaker meditation emphasizes hearing divine messages, the humanist meditators focus on impulses toward love and truth, and try to accept the events of their lives to gain greater inner calm, said Alexander, a lab administrator at the Harvard Center for Brain Science.
Joshua Beckmann, 28, of Allston, who practices insight meditation, said he enjoys the flexibility Buddhist teachings provide.
"No one's asking me to profess anything or asking me to call myself Buddhist,'' said Beckmann, a public health researcher at Boston University who was raised Catholic. "I really appreciate the opportunity to explore.''
The benefits of meditation, supported by scientific research, might attract younger populations, according to Sara Lazar, a neuroscientist at the Massachusetts General Hospital who conducts meditation research.
Lazar said her team recently studied the brains of about 30 adults - some as young as 18 - before and after they underwent an eight-week insight meditation course.
The results showed that in most participants, the portion of the brain that responds to fear, anger, and stress - the amygdala - became smaller. In animals, the amygdala has been shown to get larger in stressful situations, Lazar said.
About a year ago, the Center for Health Promotion and Wellness at MIT Medical began offering stress-reduction classes that incorporate meditation, said Lauren Mayhew, a program manager at the center.
"A lot of people have a hard time going from their frenetic lives to sitting still,'' Mayhew said, noting that the classes, discounted for students, tend to fill up on the first day.
"The really crucial age is mid- to late-20s,'' she said.
"That's when students wake up and realize that they are mortal beings and that their bodies are affected by stress.''
Some are drawn to meditation out of sheer curiosity about how their lives might change both during and after meditation.
Angela Borges, 26, a doctoral candidate in counseling psychology at Boston College, turned to insight meditation about two months ago, though she was skeptical of its tangible benefits.
Many have told her she looks much happier, she said.
"I actually have a sense of empowerment,'' she said.
"I'm running around crazy but there's just a little part of my attention . . . that sort of says ‘Look what's happening, notice how I'm living.' It's just opened up this new way of being.''

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Looking for a way to serve humanity, and also help yourself?
For those interested in a (free) group meditation that offers a powerful way to help the world and spiritually strengthen yourself at the same time, there is something called Transmission Meditation.
www.TransmissionMeditation.org
There are groups in most major cities around the USA, and many countries elsewhere around the world.
Nice pitch for Buddhism.
This is presented as if one should add meditation to ones life like one takes a pill to relieve stress. I certainly hope one or two of the practitioners may find through their meditation that the world is a little bigger than them and all those projects that they think so important; those projects that may or may not add up to much, but certainly feed their egos.
The best thing I ever learned from my teacher was just, “when you eat, eat; when you sleep, sleep, when you shit, shit. Realize that everybody has to do the same. All the rest of the things we want to do we should do mindfully, realizing they won’t add up to too much even when we do them with compassion, accepting the impermanence.”
I hope all that read this article give a little time to practice meditation and find peace in a bigger world.
Thank you for an excellent post.
I urge everyone to read your second paragraph. It's easy to dismiss, saying you do that already, but you don't. Don't take reading material into the bathroom. Don't have the TV on when you eat. Whatever you do give that your full attention. It's not as easy as it sounds.
Learn to love yourself. Learn to wish peace for all beings. Look at that picture of Cheney. If he and everyone in the world were at peace we would not be our own worst enemies.
calming and developing a consciousness of the mind's tendencies is a huge help in dealing with stress, yes, but also in just being capable of deeper presence in everyday situations and living a fuller, richer, more creative, connected and compassionate life. this is a natural way for a human being to be, though in today's world, it needs to be given a name, "meditation" so that people can take time out of their day to 'practice' it..... as if one practiced for living. awareness is readily available under the surface of neurotic cravings, aversions, and overstimulation. one of the best, most succinct descriptions of 'how to' meditate i've ever run across is contained in claude anshin thomas' book, 'at hell's gate', written after he became a monk under thich nhat hanh's tutelage after his nightmarish stint and aftermath as a vietnam vet.
Nice to see this article. I've been practicing since I was 18, spent some time at Barre as well, it's a great place. When I started many years ago the concept of age discrimination was unheard of, as far as I knew, but most everyone meditating back then was already under 32. I'm curious why the under 32 age requirement seems so successful. Is it primarily because of social bonding? Maybe to make some connections? Or are older people intimidating to the young in a meditation environment?
Meditation is best practiced in the midst of chaos, not at some sanctimonious retreat.
""It was just meditate, eat, sleep,"
Substitute "watch TV" for "meditate" and it doesn't seem that different from the blank stares of the people out in Iowa.
You are talking out your butt, pudepooh. You know nothing about Iowans, nor meditation.
I meditate. I was raised Buddhist (as philosophy not a religion).
I've also spent time learning meditation (Zen meditation) while interning at the Tassajara Monastery in CA, and have had many friends who have become monks.
I have relatives in Iowa.
"You are talking out your butt, pudepooh. "
Oh, relax.
Swami Monkeypooh
Where do you find the power to judge? If you have it can you please teach me. If you only knew nothing, perhaps you could learn something! What is it that you can hold on to that makes you feel you know better?
Whatever your "techneque" of meditation is, the best thing you can do is to let it go if you arrive at the purpose.
Sogyal Rinpochi says ; Spiritual truth is not something elaborate and esoteric, it is in fact profound common sense. When you realize the nature of mind, layers of confusion peel away. You don’t actually “become” a buddha, you simply cease, slowly, to be deluded. And being a buddha is not being some omnipotent spiritual superman, but becoming at last a true human being.
"Sanctimonious retreat", "blank stares of people out in Iowa",
Is that not condescending judgment from one who arrogantly purports to know better?
I agree. It was a deliberately flippant statement.
But then again, my main complaint with this form of meditation is the dogma, arrogance, and condescension.
And have you ever BEEN to Iowa? Even without passing judgment, believe me, those "blank stares" are real.
It's been awhile since I've been to Iowa, maybe the fumes from all the pig farms have affected their brains, thus the blank stares, what do I know. I was being a little flippant as well. I actually agree with your statement about mediating in all places, as a way of life, (I think that's what you were saying). I just thought it a little harsh to criticize these people for going on retreat, seems like a good start at least, right? the group setting, the support from teachers, the silence, etc, can't be that bad, considering.
I agree with Lucitania as well.
Happy journeys, till we meet again.
The irony of this finding this article in the Cyber World is not lost on me.