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Seeing with Tucker Carlson's Eyes
I can empathize with MSNBC's Tucker Carlson. It's not easy, but I can do it. Maybe even with President Bush. Our religious traditions and classical philosophers extol the importance of seeing with the eyes of others.
Carlson attacked Senator Barack Obama for speaking about the importance of empathy in our shared public life. "He sounds like a pothead to me," Carlson said of Obama. "Tell me what you're for. I don't want to hear about the empathy..."
And Bush's former Surgeon General, Richard H. Carmona, also told Congress this week that he was told by the Administration not to attend the Special Olympics because the Kennedy family support the organization. "I was specifically told by a senior person, 'Why would you want to help those people?'"
If we are to make sense of a top government official's "those people" comment and Carlson's opinion that there is no place in political life for talk of empathy and understanding, we need to see the issues through their eyes. We need to do the very thing they are implicitly telling us not to do in our public lives.
Here's what Obama said:
"Somehow we have lost the capacity to recognize ourselves in each other. You know, people talk a lot about the federal deficit, but one of the things I always talk about is an empathy deficit."
This is no idle observation. It happens to be true. Our capacity for empathy in public life has been diminished, and not solely because of inattention or callousness. Habit, custom, and our political and philosophical theoretical orientations have conspired to make the political sphere a colder place.
Since the Enlightenment, empathy, friendship, intimacy, and companionship have been all but exiled from the political sphere, a place ideally reserved for dispassionate and objective deliberation about brute facts. This was a radical break from classical political theories. Aristotle believed the health of the polis depended upon close bonds of friendship among citizens. But Kant believed ethical relations must be based on universal, disembodied reason. Empathetic acts might be good, but they are not legitimate cases of moral action because they are not based upon purely reasoned obligation and duties. Adam Smith, of course, believed the invisible hand of the free market could do for us what fleshly hand-holding could not do in modern society: reduce frictions among people and make for more amiable if more superficial interpersonal relations based upon commercial transactions.
Furthermore, empathetic bonds between citizens threaten loyalty to the state, or even to lesser organizations like businesses. How many of us have had bosses whose management strategies included the interruption of friendships or alliances among inferiors? Here's how Kurt Riezler, philosopher, pre-World War I assistant to the German chancellor, and friend of Leo Strauss, summed up authority's dread of interpersal bonds among its subjects. His is not an extreme view. He just had the guts to say out loud what other theorists of authority disguised in less blunt language.
"Whichever way friendship is defined in a given society, whether it is considered a private concern or a public matter, it always is a political phenomenon...friendship can easily become the basis of conspiracy. Every dictator and tyrant is aware of the potential threat of friendship. Dictators know that friendship often provides a bond more enduring than other social bonds and hence can become a power base from which their power can be assailed. In political persecutions and proscriptions of all manner, inquisitors have always included the friends of their primary enemies in their attack. History has numerous examples to support this point. If one becomes a victim of the Stalin purges in Russia, one's friends were likely to be implicated also."
We are beginning to see the issue as Carlson sees it. Empathy has no place in the rough and tumble world of politics. Modernist political science has taught us that. Kant taught us that. The lessons of authority teach us to see friendship among our obedient followers as suspicious and destabilizing. The social sciences, which see people as interchangeable variables in statistical arrays, have had little good to say about emotional bonds among flesh-and-blood people. We are not talking about the importance one might place on empathy in one's intimate relations. Tucker Carlson might be very empathetic, have very close friends, be loyal and willing to sacrifice for their betterment. But those qualities don't extend, and shouldn't be extended, to our relationships with others in the political sphere. Citizens are not empathetic friends.
Add to this a dose of insecure masculine fear of intimacy and we can begin to see from Carlson's point of view that Obama's use of the word "empathy" in a political context was jarring and, really, intolerable. Empathy is analogized to pot-smoking. Both put us in a fog and make us less fit to make the kind of tough, hyper-rational, and un-emotional decisions one must make in a dog-eat-dog world.
The problem is that Carlson's view, shaped as it is by custom, habit and dominant philosophical considerations, is wrong. Human beings are not who the Enlightenment thought they were. Reason is emotional. Thought is embodied. Empathy is critical to human development. Children learn language because of networks in their brains which allow them to mimic the movements and utterances of others. Empathy allows us to engage in what anthropologists call "shared intentionality." We can work together on a project because I am able - in simple tasks and complex ones as well - to see the task from your point of view and organize my movements to complement yours.
People with brain injuries or development difficulties that inhibit empathy are often unable to engage fully with others in cooperative play or work. Autistic people, for instance. And doesn't it sometimes seem that our disconnections with other Americans are so profound that the word "autistic" might be becoming a condition of our culture and not just an individual debilitation?
As George Lakoff has written, our political values are shaped by metaphors extended from models of the ideal family. There is the nurturant model, in which care and responsibility are central, and there is the strict father model, in which obedience and discipline are central. Most people carry both values with them. They are nurturant and empathetic in some parts of their lives and authoritarian in others. For classical thinkers - and to ancient and contemporary members of smaller and less complex political organizations, tribes, nomads, etc. - there was a place for empathy and more dispassionate authority. By rejecting empathy as inappropriate in political conversation, Tucker Carlson is, in a sense, rejecting a key part of our humanity.
At a time of growing domestic tension and division, at a time of increased awareness of global interdependence, the failure to recognize the place of empathy and friendship in our political relationships is not just an emotional setback. It may leave us with no friends at all.
Glenn W. Smith is a Senior Fellow at The Rockridge Institute
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Show AllHas anyone seen Tucker Carlson's performances--including the cut-and-paste mixing of separate quotes to create statements that completely misrepresent what Cynthia McKinney had to say--in the documentary "American Blackout"? Carlson is creepy, but he's good at it.
Reality show idea: Take Tucker, Ann Coulter, Michelle Malkin, Rush, O'Reilly, John Stossel and a half-dozen of the other Fox/Hothead/Crank gang, put them on some island with lots of booze and temptation, and make them do things like play "Truth or Dare." Combine Survivor elements. Catch O'Reilly creeping the girls out, or Coulter arguing with her mirror about immigration. Have crucifixes and street signs (in Spanish) and American flags mixed up all over to keep them excited. Horror of horrors that would be.
Here's what Obama said:
""Somehow we have lost the capacity to recognize ourselves in each other. You know, people talk a lot about the federal deficit, but one of the things I always talk about is an empathy deficit."
This is no idle observation. It happens to be true. Our capacity for empathy in public life has been diminished, and not solely because of inattention or callousness. Habit, custom, and our political and philosophical theoretical orientations have conspired to make the political sphere a colder place."
Not just in politics, but in business, in education, in groups and organizations in general, as well as in families across this country you see fragmentation, in-fighting, an inability to come to agreement or compromise, an inability to consider other points of view. This article really struck a nerve with me.
In a society that "otherizes" all but the materially successful, empathy is downright subversive. A public culture of empathy could not ignore the pressing needs of the poor, the structural racial and ethnic inequalities, the endless demonization of "illegals." Nor can empathy and imperialism coexist, as we see in the accounts of those Iraqi War vets profiled in the current Nation article. Perhaps the most poignant stories are those of young soldiers who could recognize the similarities between their own families and those they terrorized in home raids looking for "insurgents." Those young people are now part of the movement to end that horrible occupation, so their usefulness to the Empire has been lost.
Ironically, I found it easier to emphathize with Carlson when he was younger, and seemed imbued with a looser, happier demeanor, as if he wouldn't mind toking a joint himself.
Lately, though, he's become this stern and angry man, and it seems increasingly he doesn't even TRY to be fair in his questioning or expounding. His sternness is defensive, as if he KNOWS the presidents actions aren't defensable, but he must defend them anyway.
I can barely stand to look at him, and so don't, a case where his lack of emphathy, and his audiences possession of it, may doom his ratings.
good article, but obama could expand his empathy to those people in iran he wants to bomb. he's a clever clintonian politico, but him talking about an empathy deficit is like jack the ripper complaining about dull knives. and there is a connection b/n the federal & empathy deficit; he has soothing speeches for one; what about the other?
Tucker is a media whore picking a fight with a political whore to gain audiences, and written by an academic whore as a resume for the Washington Post. It's professional wrestling goes to Washington.
Hoa binh
Ubrew12 has said it.
"Lately, though, he's become this stern and angry man, and it seems increasingly he doesn't even TRY to be fair in his questioning or expounding. His sternness is defensive, as if he KNOWS the presidents actions aren't defensable, but he must defend them anyway."
He does indeed, come across as though he is trying to get his point across even when he suspects/knows he is wrong. At least he hasn't called him the "F" word. This obsession with perceived strength, projection of power, and any one who shows slight mercy is a sissy and therefore unfit to lead this country is a symptom of the aggressive war like nature of our society.
I'd rather have a pothead, flaming gay president than wake up one day to find jack booted, leather jacketed little Gullianis goose stepping in my front yard.
See through Tuckers eyes? I don't want to see anything that little prick sees or hear anything he has to say.
V.S. Ramachandran, a neuroscientist, did research in something he called "mirror neurons." It seems that mirror neurons fire when a person is in pain, but they also fire when a person or another animal sees someone else in pain and empathizes with them. I sometimes think that Bush, Cheney and their little lackey, Carlson, were somehow evolutionarily stunted by not receiving their share of such neurons. It seems they cannot empathize with others--soldiers are so much cannon fodder to be sent to achieve the ends of the New World Order, people in New Orleans are expendable especially if they are black and poor, people are sacrificed on the 11th of the month to some sick perverted cultic belief, and handicapped people in the Special Olympics should only receive help if they can be a photo opportunity for their own political party. Yep, I say you'd spend a long time looking for any mirror neurons in that bunch. Good luck.
I agree with Clyde Paige. Tucker is a moron who can't dance, looks retarded wearing a bowtie, needs a real haircut instead of using a Flowbee, and an attitude adjustment.
Tucker has been the odd man out even from the days he was on the asinine McGloughlin Report. And I can't believe he still wears those idiotic bow ties!
Tucker Carlson is a rich boy jackass whose chief claim to fame, as far as I can tell, was being on "Dancing With the Stars." Why do you pay any attention to this moron?
Please end my life if I ever see things through Tucker Carlson's eyes!
Tucker is a child of wealth. His father was the head of PBS,ergo he gets a job in the media industry. When republican's children get a head start in life, as Tucker has, they seem to be out of touch with reality and also repeat their parent's mantra of life. The dems kids, inherit analytical thought, empathy, sympathy and a need to help solve problems, usually with good results. Robert Kennedy, David Wellstone to name a few good men. Tucker and the Bush offspring want good things for their type of people and the rest, well you know the bootstrap quote.
Ah, Tucker the trust fund kiddie. At some point Daddy's put the spurs in, giving him the "why, when I was your age, I'd already done this an' that.. yada yada" speech and Carlson's run from the room, tears smarting his eyes feeling he's let Daddy down and so now he's gonna be hard. And hard means ruthless. And ruthless means vicious. And vicious means attack. Which makes Tucker feel a whole lot better.... coz Tucker still rationalizes like the 10 year old he was when Daddy got a hold of his emotional psyche and stunted him there and then. I sense underneath it all Tucker would be a liberal. He's smart enough to see its the better argument. And his conservative rhetoric is a little too jingoistic. Almost like he's slyly poking fun at his own image. Which might explain the bow ties. An ironic shriek from the subconscious. See if the day comes when he throws off the towering shadow of daddy and turns to the left like Hitchens turned to the right. And he can finally rip into the hypocrisy that defines conservo-values.
Empathy is needed more often than many of us care to admit. Certainly empathy appears essential if one is hoping to truly understand a position that may first appear foreign to the observer.
I honestly think going after Tucker Carlson isn't a terribly complex task. What I think would be more compelling is if Senior Fellow Smith could find some examples in Obama's foreign policy that emulates what one might assume as the presidential candidate's intuitive remark about empathy. Admittedly, I am not willing to accept Obama's observation without first critically assessing the man's position on particular political subjects in context to his observation on empathy deficit.
I suspect I could argue people uncritically identify with George W Bush -perhaps even empathizing with the politician- to such an extent that they could envision themselves having a beer with Bush while watching a ball game. Now that is a very strong image of identification. Certainly the image is a cliche, if not outright propaganda -much like the repetitive statement that Obama is "new, refreshing" politician-- intended on getting the public to identify with their subject. Nonetheless, I do understand the importance of empathy. I realize in some professions, such as therapy, the professional attempts to empathize with the client. Even if the client is deemed by society (rightly or wrongly) as a deviant, the professional has a goal of empathizing, but not at the expense of objectivity. That is, the professional can empathize without themselves committing fraud or any number of socially unacceptable examples.
While I admit I am a better person when I allow myself to empathize with my friends, I also understand that a political system and political policy aren't necessarily based on empathy as are perhaps intimate moments, but, instead are routinely based on sensation and judgment. I just don't understand why someone wouldn't critically assess the politician in the essay and risk leaving an audience to perhaps assume the politician's observation is truly unfettered and sincere.
Stilba, that's hilarious! I've only seen glimpses of these reality shows - I detest them - but yours I would watch.
Dave
Let me remind Tucker and all of you that to-day is Bastille Day, the day Americans should celebrate as an omen of things to come to this country.
Empathy is totally foreign concept for Libertarians Tucker claims to be part of. Just take a look at the most famous of them, Ayn Rand. They are robotic to the core.
Article in discussion raised a very profound problem, which Age of Reason did not have a clue about. It is now proved by molecular neurology that there are no impenetrable walls between rational and emotional. Yet, we still rely on so called 'economic' man, 'states have no friends but self-interests' and other crap that belong to dust hip of history.
Why? Because it is lovely and profitable!
Even such old an apologist of our corrupted order as Zbigniew Brzezinski is talking about global awakening. So, I can bet my life that after 2008 this kid Tucker will become liberal again. But don't hold your breath: liberals are even better at war than conservative; for they are smarter.
I agree with observer. I once called myself a libertarian (even went as far as joining the Libertarian Party), until one day I sat down and looked at exactly what it was in which I believed, and what it was that libertarians believe. Just about the opposite. Libertarians do not have empathy for anybody who is not capable from Step 1 of becoming 100% completely self-sufficient and capable of standing on their own. They do not believe in the concept of helping your neighbor or even being helped by your neighbor. No empathy there.
Which is why now I'm a member of the Communist Party USA and the 4th International...